"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dating a Jehovah's witness, do's and dont's?
- Thread starter pete101
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I mean even in religions such as Judaism and Islam some more 'modern' 1s partake in more sinful acts etc but obey others. pick and choose.
although i dont know how extreme a JW is.. like is there no modern version?
If anyone has any stories please do tell.
Bible_Belt
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I think the hardest part would be not making fun of her religion. You should probably just never talk about it, act like you don't notice. That's how to treat any glaring flaw in a woman.
sharkbeat
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bigjohnson
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Either he was not a JW or you are remembering wrongly. It's one very clearly stated belief of JW that most people will be destroyed in Gods war (Armageddon) and the vast majority of survivors will live forever on earth, Hope of a heavenly salvation isn't something a devout JW would ever claim or promise.Wolf said:
Well maybe, but in my experience JW are very non-confrontational.Wolf said:
To the OP:
There are people who claim to be JW for a variety of reasons who don't really know what they are talking about. For instance sometimes a person had a mother or who was associated with the organization or something and maybe even went to a few services herself, but never really got serious about it. These you will have a shot with.
The real hard core JW will be active Bible preachers who attend services 2-3 times a week plus they will go out and cold call trying to discuss Bible topics with people in their area a few times a month. These are sweet traditional feminine girls who I have no doubt will make someone a nice wife someday, but you're not likely to get them to put out and if you did you would succeed in potentially causing significant emotional damage to them due to the repercussions they would experience.
They are the modern version. Any JW who "partakes" is excommunicated swiftly and surely and is thus by definition no longer a JW.pete101 said:
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Don't: mention Jesus.