Tokyo Love
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Have any of you guys dated a girl with a disorder, such as ADHD or Bipolar? If so, how'd it go, did it affect the relationship at all?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dating a girl with a disorder
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
SIMPLY...DONT
there's enough SANE chicks out there, so find one of those
(might as well bang her if shes hot but nothing else)
there's enough SANE chicks out there, so find one of those
(might as well bang her if shes hot but nothing else)
For the love of god and all that is holy!!!
do NOT go down this road. only asking for problems
unless you plan on a pump and dump with a chick in a
different zip code she wil turn your life upside down
I work with a dude who was FWBs with a bipolar girl
NOTHING but drama. STAY FAR AWAY
do NOT go down this road. only asking for problems
unless you plan on a pump and dump with a chick in a
different zip code she wil turn your life upside down
I work with a dude who was FWBs with a bipolar girl
NOTHING but drama. STAY FAR AWAY
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
You should stop worrying about all these disorders like ADHD, bipolarity and focus solely on the chicks with eating disorders.
First, you should get yourself a girl with anorexia and take her out on a date to MacDonald's. There, you will talk her into ordering a big mac menu, compliment her on how bony she looks and feed her 1 fry. A small one. Then you proceed to eat the rest of the menu yourself as she already feels fat and ugly. Make sure you have you have a fat chick lined up directly after this date, so you can feed her your leftovers. Sometimes you need to spin some anorexic plates in order to gather enough food for your fat chick, 2 or 3 should do normally unless you're seeing a really massive chick.
A few tips here:
Compliment the chicks with anorexia on how bony and skinny they are, and how you love it when their collarbones are so prominently visible. Caress their ribcages and tell them how erotic you think it is when a girl looks like a corpse. The fat chicks need compliments too, but of a different type. Compliment her on her personality, and how you think she has great curves, and that skinny chicks don't know what they're missing. Never mention she is fat, just make compliments to tell her she looks great.
Pro-tip: Avoid bulimic chicks, unless you're into sloppy bjs with remains of dried up vomit in the corner of their mouth!
First, you should get yourself a girl with anorexia and take her out on a date to MacDonald's. There, you will talk her into ordering a big mac menu, compliment her on how bony she looks and feed her 1 fry. A small one. Then you proceed to eat the rest of the menu yourself as she already feels fat and ugly. Make sure you have you have a fat chick lined up directly after this date, so you can feed her your leftovers. Sometimes you need to spin some anorexic plates in order to gather enough food for your fat chick, 2 or 3 should do normally unless you're seeing a really massive chick.
A few tips here:
Compliment the chicks with anorexia on how bony and skinny they are, and how you love it when their collarbones are so prominently visible. Caress their ribcages and tell them how erotic you think it is when a girl looks like a corpse. The fat chicks need compliments too, but of a different type. Compliment her on her personality, and how you think she has great curves, and that skinny chicks don't know what they're missing. Never mention she is fat, just make compliments to tell her she looks great.
Pro-tip: Avoid bulimic chicks, unless you're into sloppy bjs with remains of dried up vomit in the corner of their mouth!
5string
Master Don Juan
You'd better listen to these guys. Check the threads on personality disorders, BPD, HPD, Bi Polar, etc. Then google them. Educate yourself before going further, because after you read up on it, you won't go further. If there is any good advice I have given on this forum, this is it. Take heed brother.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HeyPachuco!
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Yep.
I've dated one girl who suffered with ADHD. I was teasing her and I said something like "I'm going to Fvck you're sister Har Har Har" and for the next 20-30 minutes or so, she was shouting down the corridor, jumping up and down and her eyes filled up. After I calmed her down, she said "Sorry, I love you". I was like WTF. It's not till about a month into the LTR did she say she had ADHD.
So in a nutshell, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just have you're wits about you and when they get into their wild ways, pay no attention to it, no fuel for it or any type of emotion. The heart can't be involved. It's not personal.
I've dated one girl who suffered with ADHD. I was teasing her and I said something like "I'm going to Fvck you're sister Har Har Har" and for the next 20-30 minutes or so, she was shouting down the corridor, jumping up and down and her eyes filled up. After I calmed her down, she said "Sorry, I love you". I was like WTF. It's not till about a month into the LTR did she say she had ADHD.
So in a nutshell, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just have you're wits about you and when they get into their wild ways, pay no attention to it, no fuel for it or any type of emotion. The heart can't be involved. It's not personal.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
What? No, that's ridiculous, HeyPachuco, what a terrible excuse for her being crazy. As a person with ADHD myself, I can tell you that it's a very vague and subtle disorder that affects personal relationships, but not in an immediately noticeable way. I find it more difficult to multitask, I'm usually disorganized, and socially, occasionally I say inappropriate or offensive things without realizing it. I imagine these issues would be more obvious in some girls, but certainly not threatening to a relationship the same way BPD would be.
I once dated a girl with a LAZY EYE.......I swear she was SEEING SOMEONE ON THE SIDE.
Then I dated a BLIND GIRL, first time we met I asked her if she SEEING anyone right now.
Then there was the ADDICTED TO FOOD CHIC...........it started out really cool, i emailed her and she responded instantly. SHe practically begged to meet me, she said to meet her at an ALL U CAN EAT BUFFET. U Gotta picture a fat chic with BAR-B-QUE SAUCE smeared all over her face and fingers, asking me "are you going to finish that".
Then I dated a BLIND GIRL, first time we met I asked her if she SEEING anyone right now.
Then there was the ADDICTED TO FOOD CHIC...........it started out really cool, i emailed her and she responded instantly. SHe practically begged to meet me, she said to meet her at an ALL U CAN EAT BUFFET. U Gotta picture a fat chic with BAR-B-QUE SAUCE smeared all over her face and fingers, asking me "are you going to finish that".