Dating a friend.. advice welcome

[TheGambino]

Ive known this girl for 8-9 years from school and going out.

We texted the last 2 years a bit and we went to the gym together, the last months shes texting me a lot trying to get some attention from me.

Tho were friends, i never escelated always felt she was interested in bein more then friends in the way she talks, has interest for me and trying to see me in the clubs in the weekends.

Tho i never threated her sexually and my question is this saturday were planned to do something together, I ignored her the last months on text messages but she kept texting me so I asked her to get together and drink something she immediatley accepted.

How could I escelate to a sexual way without shocking her coz I never did, always acted normal when I met her and didnt show much interest..

thanks for the tips already !

 

[VladPatton]

How could I escelate to a sexual way without shocking her coz I never did

THAT is the hard part about trying to game girls you've known for a while and never did anything with them. The only possible mindset at this point is to say "fück it!" and go for it just as if you see her for the very first time. You're a different guy now and you wanna take her to Poundtown. Let it be known. Don't go back to being how you were way back when. Resist and stick to your guns. Hopefully she still looks good.

 

[Kailex]

Forget the girl you've known for 8-9 years.
Treat her as you would treat any other woman.

Who cares if she gets shocked... you take rejection over regret any day.
The fact that she even accepted this means that she wants to be shocked in some way or form.

Game on.