"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating a friend.. advice welcome

TheGambino

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Ive known this girl for 8-9 years from school and going out.

We texted the last 2 years a bit and we went to the gym together, the last months shes texting me a lot trying to get some attention from me.

Tho were friends, i never escelated always felt she was interested in bein more then friends in the way she talks, has interest for me and trying to see me in the clubs in the weekends.

Tho i never threated her sexually and my question is this saturday were planned to do something together, I ignored her the last months on text messages but she kept texting me so I asked her to get together and drink something she immediatley accepted.

How could I escelate to a sexual way without shocking her coz I never did, always acted normal when I met her and didnt show much interest..

thanks for the tips already !
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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VladPatton

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TheGambino said:
How could I escelate to a sexual way without shocking her coz I never did
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THAT is the hard part about trying to game girls you've known for a while and never did anything with them. The only possible mindset at this point is to say "fück it!" and go for it just as if you see her for the very first time. You're a different guy now and you wanna take her to Poundtown. Let it be known. Don't go back to being how you were way back when. Resist and stick to your guns. Hopefully she still looks good.
 
Kailex

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Forget the girl you've known for 8-9 years.
Treat her as you would treat any other woman.

Who cares if she gets shocked... you take rejection over regret any day.
The fact that she even accepted this means that she wants to be shocked in some way or form.

Game on.
 
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