"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating a coworker

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nvictor

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Hi all DJs, I'm new to the forum.

She's hot. I'll give a 7. She started working in last monday.
I believe I'm the only boy that is approaching her. Started
by calling her timid and so....

Don't know if she's into me. But something scares me. Is it
a good idea to date a coworker? You know when things get serious...

Give me advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My friend is currently regretting dating a co-worker. After an acrimonious, extended break-up he has to sit across from her all day and put up with her new guy popping in and kissing her.

If it was me, I'd have moved on and it wouldn't bother me. But he's a rAFC and it's killing him.

So, do it if you think you can deal with the inevitable mess, steer clear if you value your bitter ex-free work environment.
 
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