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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Dates and weeknights

Patrick124

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does anyone do dates on weeknights? I've never done it before...but in the last 3 days I've gotten 3 new #s, and i don't really feel like dedicating my weekend entirely to dates lol.
and what mgiht u suggest for weeknight-date ideas. maybe jsut-dinner? or have her over/go there. jw cause I can't think of **** haha.
 

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take a walk at the park
 

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Johnnie5

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get the week night date happening

dunno about you but week nights i do not much anyway so may as well make something of the night , also helps break up the working week

also i value my weekends too much to be bothered on a maybe
 

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Park's a good idea. Umm I dunno, not much for dates, just hanging out, go do something fun. Movies, or something, but it's hard if you can't drive.
 
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