Dates 4-10 - suggestions...

[johnnyboy101]

I'd be interested in getting your opinions on the behaviours exhibited between dates 4-10.

On the first, second and third date, I'm absolutely fine. I have a virtual 100% k-close rate on the first date, often a f-close. And I always nearly f-close by the third date. Please note, I'm using the word "date" here as a general term, not in the supplicative sense!

However, in the subsequent dates, I feel somewhat lost at sea. I need to find a congruent approach. By the time of the fourth or fifth date, the chances are that I want to turn them into a girlfriend, but I lack a way to do this.

This has always been a sticking point for me. I'd appreciate any input from guys on how you use this time to turn a "dating partner" into a girlfriend.

Thanks in advance.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

just look at them as activities you'd do with a friend and add sexualstuff.

 

[johnnyboy101]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
just look at them as activities you'd do with a friend and add sexualstuff.

Thanks, KC, but I just seem to dry up, my friend.

I need to loosen up. For the first few dates, I have a plan in mind and it works well. But after that, I must admit, I'm a bit stuck!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Don't have plans. Just take everything as it goes, take nothing for granted. Just have a goal, to have FUN and to enjoy yourself.

 

[Knicknack]

after the 3rd date you two should be pretty comfortable just hanging out around the house some nights. you don't have to go out every night. watch a movie and cook dinner or order in. she should not expect you to entertain her every moment.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Originally posted by Knicknack
after the 3rd date you two should be pretty comfortable just hanging out around the house some nights. you don't have to go out every night. watch a movie and cook dinner or order in. she should not expect you to entertain her every moment.

w3rd.

 

[chili kat]

In my case, I have a lot of work related social gatherings as an option; casual stuff, like BBQ's and ballgames...somtimes paintball, trips here and there. After several dates I start to occasionally invite them to these events. I start to show a little more of my daily social life, but without starting to see them more often either.

 

[Walden]

If you're not bAlls deep in her by date 4 you probably never will be. Seriously if you're not handling it by date 8 or 10 don't you think that's nature trying to tell you something.

 

[516]

This is true, Walden. However, I believe JohnnyBoy was saying that he is fukking them, but he needs some new things to do to progress things in their relationship after the sex.

 

[Walden]

he is fukking them, but he needs some new things to do to progress things in their relationship after the sex.

How odd, I understood all of those words and yet the idea they convey is completely meaningless to me.