"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dated one month, she hasnt let me over to her house

Colinski282

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My girl and I have spent a good amount of time together and tend to vibe well. However she has no problem coming over to see me but it occured to me she will not ever let me come over to her house.
Ive brought it up before and she knows i dont like it. How would a Don Juan handle this
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007

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Drop in on her unexpectedly, but have a good story ready, and a cheap, thoughtful gift.
 

WORKEROUTER

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Uhh, tell her straight out next time. "Let's go to your place." If she gives you any sh*t, ask her why.

But if you're banging her nonetheless, who cares? I'd prefer to be in my place anyway!
 

Shiftkey

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Maybe she has a large angry father that she lives with who hates every man she brings home. You should count yourself lucky that she's not one of those sadistic b1tches that enjoys watching guys getting harassed by their father.
 
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