"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dated girl for 5 years, broke up -- back together?

chad2k5

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We were together for those 5 years, then we broke up for about 2 months. Anyway, we started talking again and she's been over at my house like every night since. But we're not really together.

One of my friends (who I trust) says she's only back with me because she doesn't want to be alone.

A different friend said she might be trying to hang on.

Any ideas here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lion

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How and why did you breakup? Why are you "not really together"?

How have you spent the last two months?
 

Jblitz59

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She is going to LJBF you if she is over your house EVEry night, busy yourself up quick not much time left.
 
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