date with girl: she brings her friends

[omega05]

I don't like how she said she wanted you to be her driver. I think it was cool you didn't go but now you have to see her response to you inviting her out again

 

[yuppaz]

You did the right thing. It was not cool of her to try at the very last minute to do that to you & assume you would drive. + Her tone was pretty friend ish asking for a favor from another friend. If she is / was really interested she shouldn't have done that to you. To me, in this situation you handled it correctly. You would probably have had no 1 on 1 time with her and maybe she wanted itlike that which is a non starter from the get go. Ifahe's really feeling you she will try to make itup to you sone how for her blatant disregard /stupidity.

 

[The Bat]

Hi.

I think that ill text her next thursday, so I was planning on saying something like A:
'Hi HB7, how went Xmas? I did blah blah...listen, we should go do X next saturday or sunday evening.'

B:
'Hi HB7, how went Xmas? I did blah blah...I did not expect to be meeting some of your friends last time, I guess we should just get to know each other first.
Listen, we should go do X next saturday or sunday evening.'


Any good?

I think you should do option C - delete her number from your phone.

Bro, this girl doesn't care about your opinion or viewpoint because, as you said, she arranged a double date 30 mins prior to you meeting up with her.

Put yourself in her shoes....would you have pulled the same crap to a girl that you really, really liked? Or would you pull that with a girl that you sorta maybe like?

I think you either delete her number or you wait for her to contact you.

And finally, if you still decide to text her, then for the love of god, don't give her a summary of how you spent your Christmas.