"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Date with bi-girl, who likes girls more than guys!

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OK, I met this girl who is very cute, and she seems so cool.. we talked on the phone a few times, and talked on AIM. She is definitely BI, and she seems to like girls more than guys (if she likes guys at all, I haven't asked her directly). I'm not trying to come on strong to her so I asked her out to coffee and she said "coffee sounds nice"... So I'm supposed to call her and set of the date later this week..

Don't know what's up with her... she likes girls and said something like "I only like boys when I have to"... Don't know what to make of that.

So I'm gonna try to gte this date set up, she might flake on me who knows.. but how do I handle a chic like this? A chic that likes girls more than guys, but would "consider" dating a guy??
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Immaculate

Don't know what's up with her... she likes girls and said something like "I only like boys when I have to"... Don't know what to make of that.
Ignore it. Just treat her like any other attention craving b!tch.

If shes semi decent looking all "I'm Bi" means is:

"I dont want tattoos , Wicca is played out and pearcings are done to death so today I'm "Bi". Dont you just love how unique I am? and I bet your going to be like all the other drones and strangle your organ tonight to the thought of me with another chick, wow I almost actually felt my ego rise that time....I rule, dont ya wish ya girlfriend was hot like me..dont ya?."


So yeah just treat her as if she just told you she bought a new pair of shoes, pay it no attention.
 

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when appropriate, drop/construct a threesome scenario.
 

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Isn't it your job to change that? :p
 

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ughh.. now I was chatting with this chic again and she is a big druggie .. she does coke and god knows what else.. I'm not sure I even want to deal with this chic now.. and she's only 18 .. would you guys bother dealing with this? She'll probably be on coke when we meet up. I feel bad for her as if I want to help her because she seems like she on a fast road to death but she lives with a bunch of friends (probably druggies too), so I highly doubt I'll be able to help her .. hell if we do click she'll probably try to drag me into thast lifestyle ...
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Re: Date with bi-girl, who likes girls more than guys!

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
dont ya wish ya girlfriend was hot like me..dont ya?
hahahahah man thats too funny

IMO, bi girls are easier to pull because they are willing to let a another gyal replace a man, so the real thing will just dominate.
As for her using coke i wouldn't go near that. If you wanna save her because you wanna play hero then don't. Do you know how many people need saving in this world. If you wanna do it cause she is worth saving then it's your call.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Date with bi-girl, who likes girls more than guys!

Originally posted by ShyRyder
hahahahah man thats too funny

IMO, bi girls are easier to pull because they are willing to let a another gyal replace a man, so the real thing will just dominate.
As for her using coke i wouldn't go near that. If you wanna save her because you wanna play hero then don't. Do you know how many people need saving in this world. If you wanna do it cause she is worth saving then it's your call.

so you confirm what I'm feeling ... just next this chic?

She is so cool and nice , but that probably because she's on something.. I tyold her I'm gonna call her this week but I probably won't .. gonna next this one I think...Last thing I need is to get feelings for some cokehead chic. As for "saving" her there's no way in hell I can do that I'm still a starnger basically we haven't even met ...
 

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If she is really a coke head that means she is masking some kind of hole(depression) in her life. People who don’t know how to deal with there own problem directly won’t form healthy relationships. If you think you are/ could developing feeling for her then I think you should next ASAP
 

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Originally posted by ShyRyder
If she is really a coke head that means she is masking some kind of hole(depression) in her life. People who don’t know how to deal with there own problem directly won’t form healthy relationships. If you think you are/ could developing feeling for her then I think you should next ASAP

she's depressed .. she told me this story about her "ex girlfriend" who just disappeared and nobody knows where she is, dead, alive or whatever .. this broad is a drama queen... but I told her I was gonna call her ... ah well.. If I see her in chat I'll just say I was busy .. The cool thing about her is she took the initiative to call me a week ago after we hadn't spoken/chatted for like a month..
She musta just did a line.
 
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btw, there are people in jail who did nothing more than give another person a car ride to buy drugs. If she asks you for a simple lift somewhere, you could be committing a felony.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
btw, there are people in jail who did nothing more than give another person a car ride to buy drugs. If she asks you for a simple lift somewhere, you could be committing a felony.
yeah i've pretty much decided to next her .. **** it it will feel good.. All those times the chic says "i'll call you" but never does.. well I'm gonna return the favor.. I bet when this girl is sober she's a b!tch who would steal cash out of my wallet.
 

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And coke's gonna make her even more depressed.

Fries the neurotransmitters. I briefly dated one gal who had been a coke-head, and she was a basket case without her psych meds. And have known some other people who did coke. All seriously depressive.

Yow. Makes me sad to think about it.
 

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Re: And coke's gonna make her even more depressed.

Originally posted by Bonhomme
Fries the neurotransmitters. I briefly dated one gal who had been a coke-head, and she was a basket case without her psych meds. And have known some other people who did coke. All seriously depressive.

Yow. Makes me sad to think about it.
If she's really hooked she'd have to take a break during our date to do some coke... she probably has one of those things you keep in your pocket and can just sniff out of it ... oh god .. I can see it now.. she comes back from the bathroom sniffing her nose all the time .. PASS
 

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