"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Date with a Promiscuous Virgin girl tommorow evening - Problem is, She's Muslim

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So I got this date with a sexually talkative Arabic Virgin tommorow. We've been talking for about 2 weeks. I've never dealt with any virgins before, so common sense would to start off a tad slower with escalation than normal non-virgins, she hasn't said she'll go the full nine-yards, if she doesn't then its no trouble for me. However, she will participate in anything else except Oral.

Fine, so we had this discussion on fourplay, she mentioned about the "hymen" and it bleeding and the concequences of her getting fingered if it did bla bla, I told her how it wouldn't effect her in anyway if it were to be touched. Plus her **** is higher than the hymen which gives her the actual "feeling".

Should I take her to my place or go out somewhere first? I'm really not in the mood to going out anywhere though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vatoloco said:
Say what!? It's one or the other, no? ;)
Potentially Promiscuous girl :rolleyes: , in terms of her seeing lots of guys, but not actually fitting the bill. Dry humps, long french kisses the fourplay, you knew what I meant Vato!
 

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Ha! I'm just yanking your chain man!

But seriously now, how do you know this girl is INDEED a virgin like you said? IDK. In my experience, when girls are all suggestive in their conversation, they're usually well experienced... How do you know this girl's not playing with your head? ;)
 

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My gut intuition tells me so. She already gave me a scenario of her getting in a Dude's bed naked and stopped at the last minute before they could get into anything, how true that story is? I don't know. I'm just going to have to take her word for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being a "muslim" is just pure bull****. Is she wearing a hijab or something?

I own a house in Turkey where I spend a lot of time during the summer. There are loads of hot "muslim" chicks down there. Some wear hijab and some don't. I've nailed "muslim" chicks with or without hijab.

The ones that are wearing hijab put up a front that they are good muslim girls that wants to save their virginity for their future husband. Funny thing is; I've nailed several in the ass (hell, one even went atm). Because, you know, anal sex and bjs aren't "real sex" :rolleyes:

I would treat her just like a normal girl. Don't make a big deal out of her being "muslim".
 

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It means she only does anal, thus, technically, a virgin. If not, have a nice coktease, cuz she'll do it to you too.
 

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Centaurion said:
Being a "muslim" is just pure bull****. Is she wearing a hijab or something?

I own a house in Turkey where I spend a lot of time during the summer. There are loads of hot "muslim" chicks down there. Some wear hijab and some don't. I've nailed "muslim" chicks with or without hijab.

The ones that are wearing hijab put up a front that they are good muslim girls that wants to save their virginity for their future husband. Funny thing is; I've nailed several in the ass (hell, one even went atm). Because, you know, anal sex and bjs aren't "real sex" :rolleyes:

I would treat her just like a normal girl. Don't make a big deal out of her being "muslim".
Finally, somebody with valid sources of experience!

No, she doesn't wear a Hijab. Funnily enough, its the ones that don't wear hijabs who spout that "good muslim chick" bullshyt to me. I've heard of stories of them going the anal route beforehand so the hymen isn't touched, but that, I thought were only myths :crackup:
 

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Heh, trust me, the anal route is not a myth! Some of them even go as far as having their hymen surgically "reattached" prior to getting married, so the future husband doesn't find out what kind of a slut he married.
 

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She already gave me a scenario of her getting in a Dude's bed naked and stopped at the last minute before they could get into anything
Wow. So she's basically telling you she's a c0cktease and you think she's gonna make an exception for you? Well. Good luck! :)

Personally, I think she gets off on getting men all hot and bothered w/o doing the actual deed, giving them a severe case of blue balls.


And that she plans to do the same to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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vatoloco said:
Wow. So she's basically telling you she's a c0cktease and you think she's gonna make an exception for you? Well. Good luck! :)

Personally, I think she gets off on getting men all hot and bothered w/o doing the actual deed, giving them a severe case of blue balls.


And that she plans to do the same to you.
Well I may just have to go the way of the corn hole, Vato? :rock:
 

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There's a Muslim girl that I'm mildly interested in. I don't have a clue what her views on sex are.

For all intents and purposes she looks like the average American chick but she's not allowed to show any skin above her knees till her neck. She can wear short sleeve shirts but can't show her shoulders. She was griping about how when she goes to the beach she has to wear shorts and a t-shirt because she can't find an appropriate swim suit. She's cute and very light skinned but I don't know if she's worth the trouble caused by her religion.
 

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Well I may just have to go the way of the corn hole, Vato? :rock:
Dude, by all means. Get any action that you can get!

Just be aware that all your effort might be for naught. I hope you've brushed up on your LMR techniques... you're gonna need them! ;)
 

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vatoloco said:
Dude, by all means. Get any action that you can get!

Just be aware that all your effort might be for naught. I hope you've brushed up on your LMR techniques... you're gonna need them! ;)

:crackup: I've propbably covered Mystery Method's LMR since 05:00PM this evening. Sad state of affairs I know, because I know that it is exactly how it'll turn out.
 

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:crackup: I've propbably covered Mystery Method's LMR since 05:00PM this evening. Sad state of affairs I know, because I know that it is exactly how it'll turn out.
Dude, I'll give you credit for that. At least you anticipated the situation and are preparing/reviewing for it.

Good luck! Let us know what happens (either way).

I promise not to make fun of you if you don't get any... ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So it looks like I passed the first phase.

#1 Date update:

- Kino from the introduction/ meeting up again
- ****y, funny, on-the-same level, conversation
- Good, fun vibing
- MAJOR make-out in a park
- Follow up for #2 Date
- Sexual inuendos

Generally feel that my work is paying off with this one. Feels good to see results from the start of something getting better.
 

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vatoloco said:
Wow. So she's basically telling you she's a c0cktease and you think she's gonna make an exception for you? Well. Good luck! :)

Personally, I think she gets off on getting men all hot and bothered w/o doing the actual deed, giving them a severe case of blue balls.


And that she plans to do the same to you.
I'd agree with this. If she'd adamant she's wants to stay a virgin you've got no chance. Promiscuous virgin? Definitely a ****tease, although tbf she might want sex but prioritises keeping her hymen in tact. Especially if she's even worried about fingering. (Tell her it should be ok with a finger, it shouldn't break, sort of lke a large tampon) You might have a chance with foreplay stuff...it's odd that she said she doesn't do oral but you might still have a chance there. And maybe anal...but anal seems a bit more extreme that oral so she might not be up for that.
 
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