I'm heading out with a girl tonight. She's a cool girl that I chased last summer and at the time I was really in to but she went off to college. We got it on at Christmas however at the time I had oneitus for another girl and as a result I didn't want to lead the girl on so I told her the truth about my feelings. We still ended up in bed however the next morning when she was leaving I could see she was crying a bit and upset. I really expected that to be that however she contacted me when she got back. I blew her off a few times as the World Cup was on but she sent me a text message saying to go out tonight and it's her last night before she leaves.
Now the thing is, I want a shag (hell I'm a dude and it's been a few months) but I'm not sure what she wants. I don't want to hurt her and I feel if I try to seduce her and succeed I will end up being a **** and hurting her however i don't want to do nothing either. I'm also going out with a girl at the weekend that is super hot so I don't want it hanging over me.
I can drunken shag (most of the time) a girl I meet at a party or a club as I don't really know them however girls that I know I have a real moral problem doing it unless I want it to go somewhere.
Any advice? Or more to the point - forget MY moral issues, what would YOU do?
Now the thing is, I want a shag (hell I'm a dude and it's been a few months) but I'm not sure what she wants. I don't want to hurt her and I feel if I try to seduce her and succeed I will end up being a **** and hurting her however i don't want to do nothing either. I'm also going out with a girl at the weekend that is super hot so I don't want it hanging over me.
I can drunken shag (most of the time) a girl I meet at a party or a club as I don't really know them however girls that I know I have a real moral problem doing it unless I want it to go somewhere.
Any advice? Or more to the point - forget MY moral issues, what would YOU do?