"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Date With 19 Year Old A Bit Nervous

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I posted about this cute little blonde awhile back on here and this sweety was fixin' me up with her mom so I thought...come to find out she was just feeling me out and this Friday I have plans to hang out with her...the thing is I am a bit nervous and not sure how I shoud handle this girl..she is a playboy type as far as her look just a hotty but as much as I like to do her sex wise I also find myself attracted to her intellect she is far from dumb or stupid from the so called blonde myth and I really find myself enjoying talking to her but seriously can someone this young be into someone my age or is it a sugar daddy thing?

I don't want to blow it with her and realize she will change like the seasons and I don't want to get into being a daddy figure with her but for now she seems content to have me shes overly a big flirt with me but I am cautous wary because I am protecting myself.

As crazy as it may sound this week I shaved my goatee off to clean shaven face first time I have been this way in years and I know it took some years off my look and she was really digging me with all smiles and all.

Any older guys here or anyone with experience with much younger girls I am 51 but far from looking it or I wouldn't have this sweety this Friday.


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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your a 51 year old guy dating a 19 year old girl that looks like a playboy playmate who was originally setting you up for her mother but was just testing you (not sure what you mean by feeling you out) because she was really interested in you all along? LOL

What part of America do you live ??
 

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Kerpal said:
Yeah, I thought this type of thing only happened in Ukraine.

:crackup:
I resent that! You pick on Ukraine you pick on me :box:

http://www.ronredburn.com/tour/phot...-05-2009/images/Ukraine-Women-Odessa-0055.jpg
See, in Ukraine you don't need to get rid of your facial hair :cheer:

http://www.ronredburn.com/tour/phot...-05-2009/images/Ukraine-Women-Odessa-0045.jpg
Dude is cleaning up. Wow, and to read the posts on this forum. You guys all suck :down:

You boys think about those dudes when you get turned down by a chubby with a few kids and a bad attitude. Life sucks in America. Sorry, it just really does.
 

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I suppose she likes what you're doing already so don't worry about it too much, just show her a good time. She clearly knows you're much older than her so I doubt it's something she dislikes. In fact you could use it to your advantage, guessing that she's into the connotations of older men.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks for the replies I appreciate them.

Yes, she definitely knows I am older no doubt about that but even with my silver hair I pass for late 30's so people tell me. I'm just a bit surprised she's this into me so I'll just keep doing what I have been doing and enjoy the ride.

The part about her feeling me out was just an observation. I felt maybe she was feeling me out as if I would be into her or not being she is much younger as your looking at 32 years of age difference here.

So I figured her wanting to fix me up with her Mom was her testing me maybe to see if I would go along with it or continue with her. For as time went on I noticed she wasn't pushing her Mom and me hanging out with her anymore and it's become more about her and me as she would hint at it of which I took a chance and asked her out for Friday.

I remember when our eyes first met back a few months it seemed to be mutual attraction it was just something I felt. I was going through the drive through at CVS to pick up some meds and had never seen her working there before. When I pulled up to the window I was expecting to see a middle age woman or man but there she was and I couldn't help myself and just said Wow! Your new! That excited I was and she started laughing and from that day that was the start of it.

I live in the southern states but believe she's moved here from another country. My guess would be shes Scandinavian or Swedish from her natural blonde and blue eyes.

There is so much more with this girl. She has a sweetness, intelligence and maturity I haven't seen in other girls her age or much older that live around these parts. She has that look like Tiger Woods wife if your wondering just an all natural beauty.

BigJimbo you lucky guy you. The Ukraine have some of the most beautiful women in the world in my opinion and from what I hear very sweet and approachable. I shaved my goatee because I wanted to do something different for the summer I feel naked not having it feel less manly but will grow it back in the fall and believe this 19 year old likes it on me or off me either way.

Looks similar>http://datalocker.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/dona12.jpg

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If it doesn't work out, you have a younger brother in me, capiche?
 

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It's Friday!

Will see how things go in an hour... so far shes still all for hangin' out just talked with her a minute ago.

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Well it was a great time only thing I hated was it was a humid and hot evening at the amusement park. I almost overheated and puked but she seemed really concerned for my wellbeing and I recovered after some cold water and resting awhile.

After a couple hours of rides and bumper cars I took her for a bite to eat where we talked about her future a bit. She is studying to be a pharmasist but her heart is on being a Veterinarian. I really didn't know what to tell her other than to go with her heart for both will take a few years to complete and the money isn't bad either.

When I took her to her place I walked her to her door where she grapped my face and kissed me on the cheek and said she had a great time and to call her. When she was walking inside her door I said you forgot something...... she asked what? I said come here and find out. When she did I gave her a big hug and told her I had a great time too and then released her and walked away.

I will be calling her.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I fvcked a 20 yr old just this past Saturday, and she thought I was like 27 (I look young too because I'm very fit and eat a lot of spinach, usually buy Whole Foods or Farmer's market groceries - you are what you eat, also I don't drink, never really liked to). She told me after I popped that, "You probably could last For-ev'a" in your prime" and I was like yeah, I could, although, in my prime when I was her age, I wasn't getting hardly any. That's how backwards men and women's biological systems are. She probably Needs an older slower, more experienced guy, while women in their 30s need young hyper-active boys.

I talked to this one about her funny dad, and how she wanted to be a math teacher, and I gave her advice on what was important she must do to achieve that dream if that is what she Really wants to do. She thought her butt was getting fat (Absolutely not! - that was the finest as5 I've ever had in my life really, I ran my hands across her as5 and panties as much as I could, I can't stop thinkin about it), so I gave her "advice" once again on how important that is, that she maintain that as5 through marriage (furthest from her mind) and everything. I let her know that for most guys, her figure is numero uno and to never neglect it!! I assured her that her as5 was perfect, and she knew it, she was just fishing for compliments I think.
 

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Good work Powerlifter. I didn't think it was possible for a 50 year old to date 20 year olds, without being rich, but you have busted that myth. Be sure you escalate and maintain high sexuality in dates.
 

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Can I see the pic of the Swedish looking girl? I've been to Stockholm and have dated a few, plus I should know what I am going to tap when I follow Powerlifter ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Dude, spinach? Really? Canned or fresh?
fresh, I've been eating it at least once a week for 5 years...I started improving my health Before I caught oneitis for a girl. This girl I FELL hard for Changed me for the better. She was just wicked, could shoot guns, and put me under her spell. Ever since her, I've been seductive to women. Before her, I was a turn-off to all women really, and getting lucky was the only way. I attribute spinach as the initial spark to making me healthy to be able to show emotion (like an actor) on command. I can cry immediately if I have to, used to not be able to because I was hateful and calloused. I know it's sick, but women can Feel your emotion in your voice, body language, movements, and I use that to suck them into me, Just Like that oneitis USED on me. She was a Great actress, she had balance like a ballerina.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
fresh, I've been eating it at least once a week for 5 years...I started improving my health Before I caught oneitis for a girl. This girl I FELL hard for Changed me for the better. She was just wicked, could shoot guns, and put me under her spell. Ever since her, I've been seductive to women. Before her, I was a turn-off to all women really, and getting lucky was the only way. I attribute spinach as the initial spark to making me healthy to be able to show emotion (like an actor) on command. I can cry immediately if I have to, used to not be able to because I was hateful and calloused. I know it's sick, but women can Feel your emotion in your voice, body language, movements, and I use that to suck them into me, Just Like that oneitis USED on me. She was a Great actress, she had balance like a ballerina.

Are you eating spinach or smoking weed and chasing it with E?
 

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Oxide said:
Are you eating spinach or smoking weed and chasing it with E?
I know it sounds strange, man, but I truly believe changing my diet to salads for a whole month to cleanse my system freed me up emotionally and oh yeah, I used to drink Wheatgrass everyday back in 2005 also, but it got too expensive and the guy I was buying it from off of ebay just disappeared. Also, I started using bumble and bumble alojoba shampoo (buy by the gallon lasts 3 years cheaper) back then too. Regular shampoos make me feel and look oily and sh!t, don't know what chemicals these companies put in their products. I used pheromones (some do not work and actually turn most women away, but some women want to jump my bones then and there...I found one that most women like). I gradually started changing things about myself in the summer of 2005. It was because I had extra dough to do it, I was putting my funds into quality products, golf clubs, a new tempurpedic (now I have an airbed) mattress, $200 sunglasses, $2000 bike for cycling (taking up cycling got me focused, was good cardio, but I no longer do it as much), etc etc etc.

I didn't really have a high salary then, but I didn't date all that much and was able save a lot of money by not giving it to women to improve myself.

Fastforward to now, and I'm improved. There's no going back to the way I was. I'm a changed person, in looks, in mental capability, in understanding of women (sexually at least, not their minds so much...they're pretty much all weak-minded except for that rare breed that thinks like a man but I'm not attracted to those "tough" women). Women are to be taken care of. This independent woman bullsh!t is such a turn-off.
 

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LOL! brother,

I don't have any pictures of her yet as this relationship friendship is fresh haven't pulled the camera out yet but she looks close to the picture above of Tigers former wife.

PM me and I can show you a picture of me and you can decide if young sexy women are blind :D

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Can I see the pic of the Swedish looking girl? I've been to Stockholm and have dated a few, plus I should know what I am going to tap when I follow Powerlifter ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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