I met an older chick and im meeting her at a sports bar for dinner and pool. I live with my parents and I want to go back to her place to get a piece. Whats the best way to casually ask her towards the end of the date without offending her?
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You don't ask. You act like such a DJ and have such a great time, that you get HER to ask YOU inside. There is no tactful way to ask for sex. Your responsibility is to create a situation where you don't have to ask.
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I took a 'friend' out to teach her how to shoot pool. She wanted to learn because she met a guy that she liked and he shoots pool. Like I said, we were just friends, and sometimes, no matter how hot they are, you have to look at them like you've been with better. So I'm abusing her all night, and if she gave me lip, I would remind her who was in charge. Again, it was just out of fun. By the end of the night, I could tell that if I wanted to, then she would be more than willing. I was thinking, 'I can get her in the car, or we can go somewhere close, like the park.' LOL! Every chance she got, she was strutting what her Momma gave her, in front of me. Like I said, if I wanted to, she would have gave it up... a few days later, she told me that that night, she would have gotten on that pool table and spread her legs for me, because she was so turned on by the way I was telling her what to do, being a drill sargent and all. So....
If you play your cards right, you can have a go with her anywhere, including the pool table.
Speaking of pool tables, if you live in Columbus, Ohio, and have been to the Yukatan off of Bush Blvd.... the pool table upstairs behind the DJ..... ....do expect to get some watchers if things get hot on it. Thursday's are 'Ladies Night'... that's when we went.
If you play your cards right, you can have a go with her anywhere, including the pool table.
Speaking of pool tables, if you live in Columbus, Ohio, and have been to the Yukatan off of Bush Blvd.... the pool table upstairs behind the DJ.....
....do expect to get some watchers if things get hot on it. Thursday's are 'Ladies Night'... that's when we went. 
Two approaches
It is entirely up to you, I am 28 and have been with women that are any where from 35 to 42. Some of them like a younger man who is assertive and takes action and some like ones that are a challenge and don't try to nail them on the first date.
So you can play the challenge card. If you she hasn't played pool, use the opportunity to show her how handle the cue stick and get close to her, Light touching,
just enough to peek her interest and get her excited. Keep her interest up by being funny and having fun (not goofy) and then drop her off and she has high interest level you will want to call for second date or if not sure close for the kiss to be sure.
The other approach is you can use is touch her on and off throughout the even, light brush ups, light touch on the back, and then if you are taking her back to house walk her to the door and stop a few feet before and get ready to say good night, if you primed the pump she will invite you in.
It is entirely up to you, I am 28 and have been with women that are any where from 35 to 42. Some of them like a younger man who is assertive and takes action and some like ones that are a challenge and don't try to nail them on the first date.
So you can play the challenge card. If you she hasn't played pool, use the opportunity to show her how handle the cue stick and get close to her, Light touching,
just enough to peek her interest and get her excited. Keep her interest up by being funny and having fun (not goofy) and then drop her off and she has high interest level you will want to call for second date or if not sure close for the kiss to be sure.
The other approach is you can use is touch her on and off throughout the even, light brush ups, light touch on the back, and then if you are taking her back to house walk her to the door and stop a few feet before and get ready to say good night, if you primed the pump she will invite you in.