"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok......I've probably done something really stupid in your opinions but hey flame me if you want.

I met this girl on my space IMO shes about an 8.
Im off to see her tomorrow and I know she thinks Im cute....because she kept saying I was cute and she loves cute[was on cam] plus my mate moved onto the laptop and asked ,pretending to be me, what would u say if I was gay?[cam was off at this point] she replied by saying I would be rreally gutted cos id have no chance whatsoever with you. so yeah thats not a problem.

The problem is I suck at initiating any kissing whatsoever,unless ive been seeing the girl for a few days, so tips on that would be good.
The 2nd is she is only 5'3" and I am 5'9" is that a problem when initiating [never been out with anyone more than 2 inches shorter than me]

Please reply when you view
Thanks in advance
P.S. Not the first time I have met a hot girl on myspace....they initiated stuff is all
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Give her some flowers, a box of chocolates, and throw in a hundred dollar bill or two for good measure. Then say "I really like you, in fact I think I love you, I think you may be the one, the girl I will marry. Can I please please please kiss you?" If she says no, start crying. If she says yes, hesitate for a minute or so, then say "I'm too shy, could you start?"



Seriously though, 95% of question on here can be answered by the bible. If she's short, bend your knees or something. The only way to improve at something is to do it, so if you suck at kissing or initiating kissing, just practice. Oh, and read the bible.
 

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I hope you realize that my entire first paragraph was sarcasm and exactly what you should not do. As far as being self conscious goes, the only thing you can really do is just be more confident, which isn't easy. Being self-conscious is good, as long as your conscious of how awesome you are. Confidence is just something that comes with time, based on your success with girls and with life in general and how good you feel about yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Shocker

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Confidence.

We're all at least a little bit nervous going in for the first kiss with a new girl. You just gotta do it. The rewards are nice, as you know...

The height doesn't matter. Just lean down.
 

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Just think about why you wouldn't kiss her. Can you think of any reasons? If you don't try, it's the same as being rejected, keep that in mind.

And let us know how it goes.
 

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It's worse than being rejected if you don't try. You'll then constantly be thinking of what it would have been like and if you'll get the chance again.
 
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Plec07 said:
It's worse than being rejected if you don't try. You'll then constantly be thinking of what it would have been like and if you'll get the chance again.
yeah this has happened many a time
The date is cancelled cos she is ill :( but yeah we are gonna arrange another time probably this or next Sunday :)
It wasn't a brush off by the way...she asked for us to meet up and she couldn't apologise enough for not being able to go ....so.... yeah
Ill keep you all informed anyway
 
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