"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Date Tip - Kino Related

wheelin&dealin

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I do this all the time on first dates so I figured I might as well post it. When you take a girl out to a restaurant or a louge for a first date and there is no opportunity for kino because you're either sitting across from her or stuck in a booth. Get up and go to the washroom mid-way through the date. Come back and sit right beside her and kino the hell out of that chick the rest of the date!! Guaranteed kiss close when you drop her off courtesy of wheelin&dealin. :up:

It would be alot easier if you could choose the seating arrangement off the bat, but you gotta work with what they give ya..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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flippinfreak

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touch her shoulders as you assist her into her chair(chilvalry, still good for something)
put your foot on her shoe
ride your foot up her calf
place your hand on top of hers


I've never tried your date kino man, like to me that would totally be awkward.
 
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