"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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date settled, girl flaking !

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Had a date set with a girl ive known for 9 years from school, never had something sexual goin on, but we dated a year ago and nothin happened. shes gave me a lot of attention on texting lateley and I ignored her pretty much for months bein less responsive and stuff. last week i asked her to get a drink tonight. texted her an hour ago what time should i pick u up. she texts me an hour later: i already had another plan for tonight i forgot..

how should i react, whats best to say.

i dont care about her, i just asked to get a drink coz she texted me soo much and I met her in a club last weekend giving me a lot of attention so i thought why the hell not..

tho she flaked today.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if you really don't care about her, then don't reply and forget about her
 
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i texted her: ok ye.. thats unfortunate.

she replied: wait a minute

what should i replie guys?
 
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You should reply with "nevermind, I got other plans now c ya..."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't give this bytch the time of day after that. Do what poonani said and don't entertain her anymore.
 
VladPatton

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Reply "ok" and forget about her. Monitor her contact attempts in the upcoming days. You'll have your answers based on this.
 
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TheGambino said:
i texted her: ok ye.. thats unfortunate.

she replied: wait a minute

what should i replie guys?
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Should have just ignored her after she said she forgot. Now she is playing games with you. Her text is sh1t; doesn't do anything but attempt to keep you invested and on the line. Ignore unless she explicitly says she wants to come over to your house. Unless of course you like being played and jerked around.
 
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