"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tigre

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FVCK I was writing a long ass date report about a date i had with this HB7.5 when my fvcking computer froze and I had to restart it.Im not writting the whole thing again but just wanted to say that she was **** testing me all night and I neg hit her a lil cause she told me she used to be a stuck up lil ***** always concerned with her image and I also complimented her like once(about her bracelet she had).But didnt kiss her ass especially when she asked me like 4 times if I thought she was fat, I said that she was fine the 1st time, and then the 2nd and 3rd time used a C+F response and teased her and the last time I just negged hit the *****. Her ex boyfriend kept calling her cel and she didnt wanna answer,so that made me doubt if it was really his "ex" but whatever.I feel stupid for not having start any kino when we were on the table chatting +having drinks(oh BTW we went to an irish pub), but i held her by the waist when walking back to my car.Then we drove around some, talking and listening to music etc then I drove her home but didn´t kiss her, It just felt awkward cause the car parked behind us was with his highheadlights turned on flashing all inside my car, so I just kissed her on her cheek and left.overall I think I did ok except by not kissing her at the end.OH also my stupidass friend kept calling me on the date asking if I could sell him weedand that he was coming to the pub for some) I told my date that it was my friend telling me if I wanted to go to watch dvds in alejandra´s (a classmate from HS)house.And my dumbass friend arrived later and I had to leave my date for about a min, just to tell him i didnt have weed right now). I think that might of affected the date.Feel free to write some opinions about what I should have done or havent done.
PS. yeah I know, paragraphs! gimme a break I just blazed like 5 mins ago_Oh, also I smoked a lil ass bowl before the date.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude thats kinda obvious unfortunately I didnt but I´ll call her on the weekend or something to hang out and definitely gonna have atleast some making out action. This girl seems kinda slutty and with low selfesteem and the good thing is that shes got a high IL with me probably cause Im not all AFC like her ex´s. she told me that one of her ex´s used to cook for her and cook all sorts of crazy **** like lasagna and other difficult foods to cook.
 
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