"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FVCK I was writing a long ass date report about a date i had with this HB7.5 when my fvcking computer froze and I had to restart it.Im not writting the whole thing again but just wanted to say that she was **** testing me all night and I neg hit her a lil cause she told me she used to be a stuck up lil ***** always concerned with her image and I also complimented her like once(about her bracelet she had).But didnt kiss her ass especially when she asked me like 4 times if I thought she was fat, I said that she was fine the 1st time, and then the 2nd and 3rd time used a C+F response and teased her and the last time I just negged hit the *****. Her ex boyfriend kept calling her cel and she didnt wanna answer,so that made me doubt if it was really his "ex" but whatever.I feel stupid for not having start any kino when we were on the table chatting +having drinks(oh BTW we went to an irish pub), but i held her by the waist when walking back to my car.Then we drove around some, talking and listening to music etc then I drove her home but didn´t kiss her, It just felt awkward cause the car parked behind us was with his highheadlights turned on flashing all inside my car, so I just kissed her on her cheek and left.overall I think I did ok except by not kissing her at the end.OH also my stupidass friend kept calling me on the date asking if I could sell him weedand that he was coming to the pub for some) I told my date that it was my friend telling me if I wanted to go to watch dvds in alejandra´s (a classmate from HS)house.And my dumbass friend arrived later and I had to leave my date for about a min, just to tell him i didnt have weed right now). I think that might of affected the date.Feel free to write some opinions about what I should have done or havent done.
PS. yeah I know, paragraphs! gimme a break I just blazed like 5 mins ago_Oh, also I smoked a lil ass bowl before the date.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dude thats kinda obvious unfortunately I didnt but I´ll call her on the weekend or something to hang out and definitely gonna have atleast some making out action. This girl seems kinda slutty and with low selfesteem and the good thing is that shes got a high IL with me probably cause Im not all AFC like her ex´s. she told me that one of her ex´s used to cook for her and cook all sorts of crazy **** like lasagna and other difficult foods to cook.
 
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