The Duke
Master Don Juan
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Went out with a 35yo from Tinder last night. She looked like an HB8 in her pics, but in real life she was maybe a HB7. The body was nice, but the face looked way older.
There was very little text exchange before the date and I never bothered to call her. In fact I sat on my azz for 2wks after I got her number before we went out. I didn't exert much effort at all. No clever lines, no jokes.
One hour before our date, I get the "I'm going to be late" bullschitt text. She showed up about 25minutes late. She also asked me right before she was leaving her house how tall I was. I replied with my height and asked her how big her boobs were.
She took it well and I told her not to wear a padded bra.
During the course of the date the conversation was 90% her, and 10% me. I really had to work to get a word in. This was a red flag with me. It needs to be 70/30 or 60/40. This was too much.
The 2nd red flag was her opinion of Trump. I was fine if she wasn't a huge supporter, but she thought he treated women badly and talked down to them, so I knew she wasn't going to be my type.
The 3rd & 4th red flag was she stated with out me even bringing it up that her relationship with her mother was difficult and she needed to smoke weed to deal with her.
The 5th red flag was she had a pile of medical bills and was selling her house and buying a cheaper one to keep the bill collectors happy.
I spent $30 bucks on her and had some decent conversation. She did offer to pay for her part.
After 2hrs, I told her I needed to be going. As I tried to part ways, she kept stalling and I assume wanted me to kiss her. She put her arm around me a couple times walking out the door. I barely reciprocated. This girl would have been DTF for sure by the 2nd date. But these days, I just can't be bothered with girls of this caliber even if they are semi-attractive.
Never look past issues like these if you want something long term, these types are only good for sechs.
There was very little text exchange before the date and I never bothered to call her. In fact I sat on my azz for 2wks after I got her number before we went out. I didn't exert much effort at all. No clever lines, no jokes.
One hour before our date, I get the "I'm going to be late" bullschitt text. She showed up about 25minutes late. She also asked me right before she was leaving her house how tall I was. I replied with my height and asked her how big her boobs were.
She took it well and I told her not to wear a padded bra. During the course of the date the conversation was 90% her, and 10% me. I really had to work to get a word in. This was a red flag with me. It needs to be 70/30 or 60/40. This was too much.
The 2nd red flag was her opinion of Trump. I was fine if she wasn't a huge supporter, but she thought he treated women badly and talked down to them, so I knew she wasn't going to be my type.
The 3rd & 4th red flag was she stated with out me even bringing it up that her relationship with her mother was difficult and she needed to smoke weed to deal with her.
The 5th red flag was she had a pile of medical bills and was selling her house and buying a cheaper one to keep the bill collectors happy.
I spent $30 bucks on her and had some decent conversation. She did offer to pay for her part.
After 2hrs, I told her I needed to be going. As I tried to part ways, she kept stalling and I assume wanted me to kiss her. She put her arm around me a couple times walking out the door. I barely reciprocated. This girl would have been DTF for sure by the 2nd date. But these days, I just can't be bothered with girls of this caliber even if they are semi-attractive.
Never look past issues like these if you want something long term, these types are only good for sechs.
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