Date Report. so many red flags, I can't even count them all.

[Darwin_Child]

Like, seriously. wtf. Is it so hard to meet a woman who isn't completely insane?


Anyway. Last Saturday, one of my good buddies and I went out to a local bar (they were having some piss poor karaoke, it was a lot of fun). He brought one of his friends. She's pretty cute; she works what she has extremely well. But, she's a really heavy drinker.

I was in a great mood, we were all laughing all night. She and I pretty much went shot for shot until we were straight wasted, and wound up making out. But, she kept talking about her ex. who beat her. apparently for five years. Dude used to sell coke, she used to help, she has no car because of excessive dui's... all red flags that this is something I don't really want a part of.

We exchanged numbers and said we'd make plans to go out. I was thinking, if she's only like that when she's drunk... then it's managable. As long as she doesn't alwaysss talk about it.


However, we went out last night and... she kept bringing it up. I only had one beer, because I'm not too heavy of a drinker. She, however, drank til she puked. Thankfully, she didn't puke inside, but still. It was gross, and really awkward. Puking is bad. :nono:

I'm wondering this, though: is it so rare to meet a girl who isn't completely bogged down with baggage? It's been a long time since I've done any dating, and so far it's not off to a good start.

 

[Sexual]

Nah, man. Not all of them are insane, just usually the highly insecure ones (lol). I attract women that have been sexually harassed in some way. It's creepy. It's one of the psychological traits I haven't figured out about myself yet.

This is one subject I'm still clueless about, that is, unless there is one simple answer.

Yes. Society has ****ed them up just as much as it's shrunken our balls. Many women these days put themselves in those situations for endless numbers of reasons... to feel important, to live up to a standard, etc. Maybe their parents were ****ed too. They have as many skeletons in their closets as we do for being promiscuous and changing our real selves in order to get laid. If there were a real statistic, I'd say that they lie more than we do. If you've ever dated a perfect angel, she probably was rammed by a football team in her past.

Society is in a moral downfall, and you must learn to not be a hypocrite. If you're perfect, join a church--preferably Protestant (just to soothe those roots somewhere in the back of my head, lol). Saudi Arabia is another choice, but my ex girlfriend was one and she was a freak.

Good luck on the never ending hunt for a perfect virgin that cooks, cleans, and does it all in the nude. Step ford wives are probably closet psychos too.

 

[Darwin_Child]

I have the same trait, I guess. I usually end up attracting the ones who have seen some tough sh*t.

But, I have too, so I'm not claiming to be perfect. I guess I'm just looking for something pretty calm right now.


Thanks for your answer, man. Cheers!

 

[Sexual]

Then you should NEXT her, bro. The tallest girl I ever hooked up with... I finger banged her and then was determined to hook up with her another night when I could isolate her from her friends. Every time I saw her after that, she was wasted out of her mind. A buddy even told me that he went out with her and her friends, and she just opened her legs on a street corner and started peeing (standing) out of her dress.

Women like that aren't up to some men's standards, and there's nothing wrong with that. After all, we're the great catch, not them. A red flag is a red flag, and I found that repulsive. I told the HO, "NO."

A buddy and I brought these girls back once, and I ended up making out with both of them, and fingering the one that I wasn't pulling. My girl flipped out about it and we left together, because I was trying to sow things up (she was much hotter). When my buddy banged that other girl after I left, she got so much more drunk to justify being with him, that she ended up PISSING on him in his own bed. I think he still talks to her.

You know your limits, and you know your own red flags. You're here for yourself and not for our approval, am I right? If you can take it, take it, if you can't, NEXT HER!!

 

[Darwin_Child]

Hahahahah gross. That would be a red flag for me, too. Good decision.

I dig the attitude you have about the whole thing. I need to get back to that, man.

I'm going to next the girl. Definitely the best decision.