"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Date Rape Drug

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Jaylan said:
No wonder your dating life is what it is.
Your opinion means zilch to anyone on this site after you post this. You just can't resist shaming can you? You're weak, son.

Jaylan said:
Im simply saying that your viewpoint is abhorrent when it comes to cases of actual drugging and rape. What does the topic of restrictions on men have to do with the fact that drugging and raping someone should be seen as a terrible crime?

So you're gonna play the blame game huh? Its rather childish to blame fringe hardcore feminists for your inability to see that sexual assault is a vile crime and only the fault of the azzholes who choose to commit such a crime.
You don't get it. Nobody is saying true date rate doesn't happen, of course it does. But it is so rare that it literally doesn't even need to be mentioned, or made into a 'cause' for you and your fellow lib-tards to champion. Put the rainbow flag back in the closet.

I'd say the girls who cry rape (when it's nothing more than guilt or self-pity) outnumber true rape victims 4:1 at minimum. I know a couple of girls in college who were 'raped' and then went on to marry the guy who 'raped' them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speed dawg said:
You don't get it. Nobody is saying true date rate doesn't happen, of course it does. But it is so rare that it literally doesn't even need to be mentioned, or made into a 'cause' for you and your fellow lib-tards to champion. Put the rainbow flag back in the closet.

I'd say the girls who cry rape (when it's nothing more than guilt or self-pity) outnumber true rape victims 4:1 at minimum. I know a couple of girls in college who were 'raped' and then went on to marry the guy who 'raped' them.
With all due respect speed dawg, you don't get it either. Men (and I use that term loosely here) like Gaylan screech about "rape culture" not out any genuine concern for female rape victims. They do it because jumping on the feminist bandwagon is empowering for them. Allying with the feminazis is one way for a weak beta nerd to rally against the alpha "jerk" that he resents out of envy. The male feminist believes that he's building a better world, one where men who have traditionally been popular with women are denounced as rapists and losers like him are elevated to privileged status because they are "feminist allies".
 

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Bokanovsky said:
With all due respect speed dawg, you don't get it either. Men (and I use that term loosely here) like Gaylan screech about "rape culture" not out any genuine concern for female rape victims. They do it because jumping on the feminist bandwagon is empowering for them. Allying with the feminazis is one way for a weak beta nerd to rally against the alpha "jerk" that he resents out of envy. The male feminist believes that he's building a better world, one where men who have traditionally been popular with women are denounced as rapists and losers like him are elevated to privileged status because they are "feminist allies".
Comment of the week. All the moral jostling and BS aside for a second this is the exact psychology behind what's going on here.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
With all due respect speed dawg, you don't get it either. Men (and I use that term loosely here) like Gaylan screech about "rape culture" not out any genuine concern for female rape victims. They do it because jumping on the feminist bandwagon is empowering for them. Allying with the feminazis is one way for a weak beta nerd to rally against the alpha "jerk" that he resents out of envy. The male feminist believes that he's building a better world, one where men who have traditionally been popular with women are denounced as rapists and losers like him are elevated to privileged status because they are "feminist allies".
Touche. Can't say it much better than that.
 
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Bokanovsky said:
With all due respect speed dawg, you don't get it either. Men (and I use that term loosely here) like Gaylan screech about "rape culture" not out any genuine concern for female rape victims. They do it because jumping on the feminist bandwagon is empowering for them. Allying with the feminazis is one way for a weak beta nerd to rally against the alpha "jerk" that he resents out of envy. The male feminist believes that he's building a better world, one where men who have traditionally been popular with women are denounced as rapists and losers like him are elevated to privileged status because they are "feminist allies".
In fairness to Jaylan, he AWLAYS jumps on the liberal bandwagon. I appreciate having opposing points of view, even if I hate what they're saying. Y'all are taking Jaylan for granted. Can you imagine the circle jerk we'd be having if people didn't come into threads and disagree with us?

Look at the bright side, conservatism is now the counter-culture; it's what liberalism was for the baby boomers. Consider yourselves rebels, because conservatives are certainly the minority now. Republicans aren't even conservative anymore. They only convey that image to get elected. Afterwards, they immediately proceed to pass legislation that hurts Americans.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
In fairness to Jaylan, he AWLAYS jumps on the liberal bandwagon. I appreciate having opposing points of view, even if I hate what they're saying. Y'all are taking Jaylan for granted. Can you imagine the circle jerk we'd be having if people didn't come into threads and disagree with us?
He does provide a certain kind of grotesque entertainment value, like a midget at a circus show...I'll give you that.
 
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