"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Date Problem

Comeback kid

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I have a bit of a problem. And i really need some advice on this as soon as possible. Usually when a guy likes a girl he meets and chats with her a few times, maybe gets her number. Then if he is interested he will ask her out on a date. Go on a few more dates ultimately leading up to a relationship. See i like a few girls and i would like to one day be in a relationship. One day very soon. The problem is I own no car, so i can't take a girl out on a date. Mom can't drive me because she is at work most of the hours in the evening. It seems its going to be this way for a while. So what do i do?? would walks around the neighborhood work. I don't want to have to stop talking to girls just because of this. Can anyone give any advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kdnash82

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I went through this problem all throughout highschool. It sucks. At a certain point in life I had girls picking me up. I got quite use to it, and sometime the girls trusted me so much, they would let me drive their car.

Advice on the matter... Get them to pick you up. If neither of you have a car, then you should just ask her to meet you somewhere. How you get there is on you though. If it's not very far, you could just cab it.
 

Stacks Of Terror

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I felt the need to come in here and reply as I was recently thinking about this. I honestly would like to hear. I've got a friend who does this alot but I never pressed for details. He's one of those natural ladies mens and I want to find out what he does.
 
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