"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Date practically set for tomorrow, some fast advice would be appriciated.

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Hello people,

Last day i met a girl at work, had a lot of fun at work.. she asked me to go on a date with her, set for tomorrow. We're gonna ride karts (you know, those small low racing mini cars), which she proposed to do. So i agreed. We finished work, talked alot, where she came from, what she was doing now (study) she's going away for half a year also for her study to the other side of the world.
We finished work late, no public transport anymore so i proposed a cab, much more cozy 2 -gether in the back of the cab. She gave me her mobile number.
So i'm gonna call her in a few hours from now, any suggestions?
should i keep the call short? what's are nice questions? and i need to discuss where we are gonna meet tomorrow etc.
Thnx

San

ps: evidently i already know wer'e gonna ****, she let me suck her finger ;)

better yet!! : need some advice on WHAT NOT TO SAY!!

thnx again
 

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Just phone to confirm the place and time of the date. Keep the rest of the BS talk, when and if she turns up.
 

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She should do most of the talking, but steer the conversation toward that which is fun, sexy, and exciting. Travel, yes; work and school, no.
 

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Oh she let YOU suck her finger. F.ck that she should be sucking your finger. Not the one on your hand either, but that's a nice start.

And yea keep call short - do you already know the place you're going to? If not, find a place and know where it is. Have a list of time/dates that you're free and if she can't meet any of those - have her propose a time and then tell her you'll have to see.
 

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It's now 01:00 at night (sunday) a few hears ago i called her up, no answer.
so i send an sms i would call her later that evening because i didn't know till what time she was working. So so 1.5 hours ago i made the promised "later in the evening call", again.. it rings keeps ringing , no answer..
what\s happening?
 

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Kev07 said:
let her call you

sorry, but improbable if u just met the girl. most girls r to shy and insecure to initiate anything, so it's ur job until u get something going.
i'd call her, if she doesnt answer, it's not the end of the world. she has a life too, y' know. if this problem persists and she doesnt return ur calls, than next her, because she's not worth it.

i'd call her, talk ( dont plan the conversation). but a good convo starter is "how was ur day?" say that than roll from there. she should do most of the talkng anyway, so u shouldnt worry about wat u should say so much. just talk with her, then set up the date. not that hard.
 

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she still didn't reply on my sms message and phonecall. i did proposed a location but no time, wanting for her to respond .
Though i find it strange because she proposed a date, gave me her number, and now i cannot reach her and she doesn't give any lifesigns back.. what is she doing?
 

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San said:
she still didn't reply on my sms message and phonecall. i did proposed a location but no time, wanting for her to respond .
Though i find it strange because she proposed a date, gave me her number, and now i cannot reach her and she doesn't give any lifesigns back.. what is she doing?
What time are you suppose to meet with her?
 

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there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls
 

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San said:
there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls
The date is today right?

Women are like dandruff....
 

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Read the Gunwitch method.

And in the future, save your money and time.

Dates don't get you laid, your sexual flow and sexual state does. So this going to ride go karts to get close to getting some azz is just plain dumb.

Read this site, read the book of pook and read gunwitch, whether you want to or not, READ IT!

And next time when you get a chick's number, you could do what I do. Have phone sex first. Then when you pick her up, go fvck her. Then after you've fvcked for a while, now go ride go karts. Does NOT that make more sense? See, if you would READ READ READ the forum more, you wouldn't make the same problems. I mean, this pisses me off with you guys. You log in and just make a thread, you don't read, you don't apply what you learnt, you don't do shyt. Yet you'll get up here and whine and bytch about your problems or "What should I say?" bullshyt. If you did your homework, you would know that the "concerns" you have aren't even fvcking real!

I'm not going to be easy on you, you need to fvcking read and fvcking learn, period. You are a Standard AFC, and quite honestly, say and do WHATEVER tactic you find, you won't get laid tonight.
 

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"there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls"

Fvcking stupid azz, bytch azz AFC. You've been here since 2003? Well you fvcking dumb, excuse for a fvcking man. You know what dude, you have just pissed me the fvck off. In 4 FVCKING YEARS...WHAT THE FFVCK HAVE YOU READ HERE????

WHAT!!!!!

Dude if you don't get your sorry, bytch azz, masterberting, punk pvssy azz on that fvcking Search and type in Gunwitch and Pook, I will seriously kick your fvcking azz!!!
 

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2 problems here:

First is the word "practically" in the thread title. The date is either set, or its not.

Second is the fact that she called all the shots. She was the initiator and you were happy to follow along. She learned everything she needed to know about you right there. She is no longer attracted to you, which is why she has not allowed you to contact her.
 

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hahah
thnx, i know i should read some more.. never had any problems with women but this one is different, i wouldn't ask if i would know the answer, i'm curious what's up in her mind acting the way she acts, meaning; letting me suck her finger, she asking me for a date, giving me her number but not responding when i do try to reach her. What's the psyche about this i mean?

i would really like to know her better you see,.. but maybe i blew my changes with her
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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