Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Date practically set for tomorrow, some fast advice would be appriciated.

San

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Hello people,

Last day i met a girl at work, had a lot of fun at work.. she asked me to go on a date with her, set for tomorrow. We're gonna ride karts (you know, those small low racing mini cars), which she proposed to do. So i agreed. We finished work, talked alot, where she came from, what she was doing now (study) she's going away for half a year also for her study to the other side of the world.
We finished work late, no public transport anymore so i proposed a cab, much more cozy 2 -gether in the back of the cab. She gave me her mobile number.
So i'm gonna call her in a few hours from now, any suggestions?
should i keep the call short? what's are nice questions? and i need to discuss where we are gonna meet tomorrow etc.
Thnx

San

ps: evidently i already know wer'e gonna ****, she let me suck her finger ;)

better yet!! : need some advice on WHAT NOT TO SAY!!

thnx again
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just phone to confirm the place and time of the date. Keep the rest of the BS talk, when and if she turns up.
 

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She should do most of the talking, but steer the conversation toward that which is fun, sexy, and exciting. Travel, yes; work and school, no.
 

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Oh she let YOU suck her finger. F.ck that she should be sucking your finger. Not the one on your hand either, but that's a nice start.

And yea keep call short - do you already know the place you're going to? If not, find a place and know where it is. Have a list of time/dates that you're free and if she can't meet any of those - have her propose a time and then tell her you'll have to see.
 

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It's now 01:00 at night (sunday) a few hears ago i called her up, no answer.
so i send an sms i would call her later that evening because i didn't know till what time she was working. So so 1.5 hours ago i made the promised "later in the evening call", again.. it rings keeps ringing , no answer..
what\s happening?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kev07 said:
let her call you

sorry, but improbable if u just met the girl. most girls r to shy and insecure to initiate anything, so it's ur job until u get something going.
i'd call her, if she doesnt answer, it's not the end of the world. she has a life too, y' know. if this problem persists and she doesnt return ur calls, than next her, because she's not worth it.

i'd call her, talk ( dont plan the conversation). but a good convo starter is "how was ur day?" say that than roll from there. she should do most of the talkng anyway, so u shouldnt worry about wat u should say so much. just talk with her, then set up the date. not that hard.
 

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she still didn't reply on my sms message and phonecall. i did proposed a location but no time, wanting for her to respond .
Though i find it strange because she proposed a date, gave me her number, and now i cannot reach her and she doesn't give any lifesigns back.. what is she doing?
 

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San said:
she still didn't reply on my sms message and phonecall. i did proposed a location but no time, wanting for her to respond .
Though i find it strange because she proposed a date, gave me her number, and now i cannot reach her and she doesn't give any lifesigns back.. what is she doing?
What time are you suppose to meet with her?
 

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there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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San said:
there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls
The date is today right?

Women are like dandruff....
 

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Read the Gunwitch method.

And in the future, save your money and time.

Dates don't get you laid, your sexual flow and sexual state does. So this going to ride go karts to get close to getting some azz is just plain dumb.

Read this site, read the book of pook and read gunwitch, whether you want to or not, READ IT!

And next time when you get a chick's number, you could do what I do. Have phone sex first. Then when you pick her up, go fvck her. Then after you've fvcked for a while, now go ride go karts. Does NOT that make more sense? See, if you would READ READ READ the forum more, you wouldn't make the same problems. I mean, this pisses me off with you guys. You log in and just make a thread, you don't read, you don't apply what you learnt, you don't do shyt. Yet you'll get up here and whine and bytch about your problems or "What should I say?" bullshyt. If you did your homework, you would know that the "concerns" you have aren't even fvcking real!

I'm not going to be easy on you, you need to fvcking read and fvcking learn, period. You are a Standard AFC, and quite honestly, say and do WHATEVER tactic you find, you won't get laid tonight.
 

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"there hasn't been any contact yet.. i called her 1 time yesterday evening, and 1 sms yesterday and today, but still no replies. i have no clue, advice pls"

Fvcking stupid azz, bytch azz AFC. You've been here since 2003? Well you fvcking dumb, excuse for a fvcking man. You know what dude, you have just pissed me the fvck off. In 4 FVCKING YEARS...WHAT THE FFVCK HAVE YOU READ HERE????

WHAT!!!!!

Dude if you don't get your sorry, bytch azz, masterberting, punk pvssy azz on that fvcking Search and type in Gunwitch and Pook, I will seriously kick your fvcking azz!!!
 

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2 problems here:

First is the word "practically" in the thread title. The date is either set, or its not.

Second is the fact that she called all the shots. She was the initiator and you were happy to follow along. She learned everything she needed to know about you right there. She is no longer attracted to you, which is why she has not allowed you to contact her.
 

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hahah
thnx, i know i should read some more.. never had any problems with women but this one is different, i wouldn't ask if i would know the answer, i'm curious what's up in her mind acting the way she acts, meaning; letting me suck her finger, she asking me for a date, giving me her number but not responding when i do try to reach her. What's the psyche about this i mean?

i would really like to know her better you see,.. but maybe i blew my changes with her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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