Date or meetup

[john1234]

Just finished the date, lots of touching and escalating from get go. Even when I left the bar I held her hand and we walked around . We held hands many times.She didn't know what drinks to order, I basically gave her choices and she drinked what I drunk. She spoke plently I listened. I touched her all over, lots of eye contact , she looked like she enjoyed most of it, but when she was going to get on the train and reached in for the kiss it didn't happen instead She is kinda just huged for long and some check pecks. She still lives at home.She seemed shy when leaving. I felt very confident. She seems to like sport too much for a girl.


I',m not going to over analyse the date but What do you reckon the next course of action should be? Did I F*** up? Grr

 

[john1234]

Oh well, no response from her after the date, really sure she was enjoying herself so much ( I can tell these signs by now.) It's a bummer really, I planned it, asked you guys for advice so she would enjoy it and shelled out to pay for the date. She didn't even have the decency to say thanks or I can't continue or what ever just went ghost!

 

[MrWood]

and you didnt invite her to a boring movie at your place.
I am sure she just loved the way her pvssy was tingling all the way to be WITH HER PARENTS

more likely it was in anticipation of whoever she WAS GOING to go fvck instead of you

yep, ghost... you didnt try to fvck her, no anticipation, no tingles... and SHE WAS DRINKING WHATEVER YOU THREW AT HER.

meh

 

[john1234]

and you didnt invite her to a boring movie at your place.
I am sure she just loved the way her pvssy was tingling all the way to be WITH HER PARENTS

more likely it was in anticipation of whoever she WAS GOING to go fvck instead of you

yep, ghost... you didnt try to fvck her, no anticipation, no tingles... and SHE WAS DRINKING WHATEVER YOU THREW AT HER.

meh

Dude, I really don't know anymore. All I know is that it has left a really awful feeling (and I broke up from a relationship some months ago, I was beatup from that and now beatup from this). A simple text from her would be ok, I would move-on, as with ghost, I don't know wtf is going on.

You suggesting she picked-up a guy on the train home or she has some FB/BF?

 

[MrWood]

You suggesting she picked-up a guy on the train home or she has some FB/BF?

yes

 

[john1234]

yes

She obviously is not worthy of my respect and time! She can't send a 10 second text message! No decency !

I feel better today, thanks.

 

[john1234]

**UPDATE**

Its been a week or so, not a flippin text (disgraceful).But guess what? We have a group chat with other work folk and I posted a picture of me enjoying my holidays, the same day she posts in the group chat about "her job" (we both have not posted there for months)---> Jealously I smell.

Seriously! I used to be one of those men who though a woman could never tell a lie, she could never do a bad deed. Actually , if I were asked, if a pretty woman was speeding I would instinctly say no!

I am beginning to see women for who they are.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

and you didnt invite her to a boring movie at your place.
I am sure she just loved the way her pvssy was tingling all the way to be WITH HER PARENTS

more likely it was in anticipation of whoever she WAS GOING to go fvck instead of you

yep, ghost... you didnt try to fvck her, no anticipation, no tingles... and SHE WAS DRINKING WHATEVER YOU THREW AT HER.

meh

I dunno, movie night dates was always good for me. I always made sure I'd have whatever they like to drink on hand. It was a high rate of success and most of those movies were not completely watched...

 

[john1234]

I dunno, movie night dates was always good for me. I always made sure I'd have whatever they like to drink on hand. It was a high rate of success and most of those movies were not completely watched...

Thanks for the future tip.

This girl knew me for 6months at work, we have chatted before, she was attracted.
Surley by the date she should have know if she wants to fvck me or not!
I believe she is a "nut job", hiding something, or something is going on there!


When she texts or calls weeks or months down the line (when she is ready) I really don't want to know and get seduced into some car crash relationship.....

The situation is similar to my Ex GF, she gave me 10 missed calls last week, blowing up my Social Media, sent me a text message at 3am today to say "Hello" and weeks ago I saw her walking with someone else, how fvcked up is that.

The hunt continues...