"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Date On Wednesday....BUT!

Climax

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Hey dude... I would go on the date and treat it as i would any other date..... Just dont get involved with her anything beyond sex.... So bang her, eep her around as a FB (f*ck buddy), and thats all. If its a relationship she is looking for, direct her elsewhere.;)


Laterz...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Treat it as any other date. Just because she got pregnant at a young age doesn't make her a bad person. Mistakes happen and people don't always make the 'right' decision.

If you aren't looking to be in a relationship, Let it be known upfront so she doesn't have any expectations.
 

Centaurion

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For me personally, huge alarm bells would have gone off if a 18 year old chick told me that she had a kid. At this point in my life I'm not looking for drama and all that emotional baggage such a situation will bring along, and that's why I steer clear of chicks like this.

I had great rapport going on with this really nice 21 year old chick when she told me that she had a 5 year old kid. Sh!t, I was out the door in a flash.
 

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Personally i wouldnt bother with her. There are to many single and available woman out there. You are to young to deal with this behavior. I could see if you were in you 30's and the girl you were seeing had children. That’s a different story.

But in your case right now, it’s not choice. Why would you want to bang her anyway? She has been having un-protected sex. Who knows what other things she would have? I say get out of the relationship before it even starts. You don’t need a woman with baggage this early on in life.
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Ok, so i set up a date with this girl for wednesday night...


:down:

England are playing, aren't they? Football should always come before women!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Legend
I could see if you were in you 30's and the girl you were seeing had children. That’s a different story.
I can't even see it then.
 
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