date on sunday (diff girl) - bit clueless on how to plan it

[LoneWolf]

im thinking i go visit cousin during the day for a little while and meet her later on during the day because they both live in the same suburb. that way i can just take a train/bus back home while it's still day or even go back to my cousin and hang out more. day dates arent the best for kino and kissing cause people are around but i dont have much choice cause i can't do it at night since i dont know the area much and im not a fan of trains/buses at night.

sheesh, i was not born to be a planner.. so lazy and over think everything. bad at it.


also, she said this in the email;

Hi <My name>,

I might have some time on Sunday for a coffee or something. Let me know whether you're available.

<Her name>

ill give her my number and ask for hers. cause we are going to need to contact each other obviously.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tGXydrnpO8Q/SYWP8xPr6rI/AAAAAAAABw4/qsRHTwpdPgc/s1600-h/dating2.jpg < i can see myself right there, lol

 

[ELMER_GANTRY]

Yes, I agree with you that you are clueless. I have seen that, especially with that Asian woman that is trying to scam you. I hope you don't accept any of her phony money, then you will get stuck paying the funds back to her.

As for this situation...What happened to the 3 options for your date and transportation you gave that you edited out? I was going to help you with that. You mean are going on a date and you don't even have her number yet? She "might" be available she wrote. You don't even know that for sure and you planned a date lol. Don't you think you should of had her number before you planned this thing? You should get her number and the Asian Womans number too. You might as well just email her your number now. What do you have to lose? I don't think you will be doing much kino or kissing on this date lol. You said in the edited post that the town sucks so it would be your best bet to go during the day with the train so it is safer. Good luck on your date and have fun.

 

[ELMER_GANTRY]

You should skip the date on sunday with her because it won't go very well. I can see that from what you wrote. You're not even fully planned for it. Send her an email and tell her you can't hang out on sunday (make an excuse) and give her your number. Then if she calls you, you can plan a decent date and talk to her and set the date up yourself. Then you can have your date (what youre actually gonna do on it) and all your transportation all worked out. Don't have her set up a date for you.

 

[LoneWolf]

ELMER, can you just let the asian thing go man. i heard your opinion you don't need to keep repeating it. if the money is handed to me in my hand i don't see how that is phony. we'll see tomorrow.

about this date, i met her on a dating site and i already asked for her number the first time we had a chat. she gave me her email instead. well i'm gonna be a little busy this weekend so i find it's better to plan ahead even though she said "might" which i think is bs and she will meet me. otherwise oh well. still got the other girl to see tomorrow and the other one on monday

there's not much i need to "fully plan". i'm just going to meet her on sunday if she wants and im going to go have a coffee with her, chat and get to know each other. kino and kissing doesn't have to always happen on a first date. besides, banging her isn't the only and first thing on my mind when i date girls. i'm looking to ACTUALLY get to know them first. if i want to bang i'll go to some nightclub. how is this not a decent date? it would be the same any day for me. i don't have a car anyway so i'm always gonna be catching the train or bus. it's been emailed already that i can meet her on sunday. it's all good bro, relax

 

[ELMER_GANTRY]

You need to get numbers before you plan dates. She declined the first time so you dont want to ask her again. Send her your number and see if she calls you back. If she does, talk to her on the phone, and then you set up the date over the phone. If she doesn't give you her number or call you then you know she is a waste of time. I think your best bet is to meet more women in person than online like you have been.

 

[ELMER_GANTRY]

you keep editing your original post and deleting the questions you orginally asked. like 3 times now. why?