"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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date lined up for this weekend, question

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MascaraSnake

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Maybe two depending on how you look at it. The first is not really a date, we're both bringing along friends to see a movie and I'm not worried at all.

The second one is uncharted territory; a woman much older than me (she's 30, I'm 20). We met at a jam band concert not too far back and we're hanging out this weekend.

Only problem; I'm a virgin. I think this one could go somewhere (there's a lot of game-playing and ball-busting on both sides) and I don't want to kill all of the tension by having to say "oh, by the way, I've never done this before" right before I start.

I'm obviously not going to be able to fake like I'm experienced, so how do I approach it without looking like some sort of wuss?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stop worrying about, and just go for it.

No one is expected to be good at something the first time they do it. And odds are, she's had some really bad sex with guys who have done it many times, and still suck.

Don't mention any of this to her, she doesn't need to know. It's not nearly as complicated as you think.
 
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update

Well, the first one flaked...her mom was in town or something. I'm going to set up one more outing with her (and bust on her like mad for being a flake) but if I get ditched again I'm not going to waste my time.

#2 was the one I was asking about anyway...I think that one'll go very well.
 
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