"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ll Principe

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Going on a date in 10 minutes, on my way out.. So quick responses will be appreciated... For some reason Ive just blanked out and dont know what to say when I see her, we going for drinks...

What things should I talk about 2 her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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Here's your quick response...

CANCEL YOUR DATE, AND STAY IN AND READ THE DJ BIBLE!



are you kiddin'me????
 

Ll Principe

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I know what to say, my mind just went blank.
Ive read everything, since I was 16, its 5 years later, i know alot. So your "noob" statements are void.
I just went blank, dont worry, I managed to pull her and had a great time. Thanks for the quick responses though!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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L777

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Ll Principe said:
I know what to say, my mind just went blank.
Ive read everything, since I was 16, its 5 years later, i know alot.
This is your problem, even though you did pull her. Seriously, internalise positive beliefs, forget the scripts, act like a man (not a frat boy/player/intellectual/whatever) and you'll be fine.

For future dates: get OUT of your own head, and IN to the moment.

Although congrats on your pull.
 

Heart Break Kid

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Just sit back and listen to some nice music. You aren't going to change the world in 10 mins. Relax okay? You're already above most guys anyway. :)
 
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