"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Date Ideas (Toronto)?

GaryNas

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I've seen threads on date ideas before, but I'd like to start one for the Toronto area. I'm hoping it will help myself and all other guys in the GTA. Here's why I started this thread:

The other day I called a girl and asked her out, but she couldn't go because the place I suggested was too far away and she would have gotten home too late (had to work early). She asked me to suggest something else, but I couldn't think of anything so she said she was just going to go to sleep. I'm glad this happened because I was unprepared and I learned a valuable dating lesson. So I'm trying to think of places of interest in and around the GTA that are fun to go on a date so I won't be caught in this situation again.

So far I've only come up with:

- Playdium (by Square One)
- Bowling
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ice Cold

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Location
Moscow
Climbing Academy
Center Island (when it's warm)
Skating
Skiing
Pool
Clubs
Auto show - can be fun even for girls

What else?
 

spidersense

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DO's:bowling, dancing, a coffee shop and play a game a chess, a book store with a coffee shop inside of it(one of my faves for a first date), the mall to see what she's into making sure to stop in the book store and music store to see if academically she meets your requirements, play a couple games of pool at a pool bar where you can also get a drink and talk afterwards, putt putt's fun, if you're really good invite her to your place for a movie and if she refuses say oh well and hang up, if you live in a big city meet uptown(uptown in charlotte, downtown everywhere else) and walk around looking at the sites but try to pick an area that has a pub or coffee shop near buy that you can rest and talk for a minute(women that are new to the area tend to like that), the library(if she's a book worm this can make good conversation just don't bore her to death), a comedy club, good strip joint if she's bi and she probably is, a party that you're going to anyways, pretty much any place that gives good feelings, a popular park and swing on the swings, a public pool, there are many many more I'm missing I'm sure
DON'TS: a restaurant-she will probably take that as a "date" date, any place negative like a prison or jail.... there really aren't many don'ts
 

Don_Marko

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Ontario
lakeshore (port credit or beaches area) only good for summer...
toronto island also only good for summer
wonderland.... fck only works for summre time
the zoo
danforth/bar district
bloor shopping area
 

nomoretime

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You can also go to operas, concerts, dances...places that give a lot of emotion and will increase the relationship with the sensation of sharing the emotion
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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