I got this 20 year old moms phone number at work the other day. Now today,the 15th, is the day for me to call and set up a date with her. Any ideas on first date with a young mom? Should I include the kid? Think nothing of the kid? Ask her on a date like any other date? Any input appreciated.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Date ideas/thoughts on young mother,age 20
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Senior Don Juan
If you really think she is worth the time, get out of the frame that you need to impress her. She has already lost some status by being tied down with a kid. Just do something simple like shopping. You need to get some food at some point, right? Go to the grocery store and make it an adventure. I am sure she has some willing friends to watch her kid for a couple hours if she has him/her.
Really, kid or no kid, don't think you need to impress a woman by taking her out to something special right away. Over time, become creative in where you go.
Really, kid or no kid, don't think you need to impress a woman by taking her out to something special right away. Over time, become creative in where you go.
Lol.... Are you serious?
A senior Don Juan suggests taking a girl on a date to the grocery store? As a treat...lol...
Theres nothing wrong with young moms but IMO, and this isn't great Don Juan advice, its only experience of people I've known in life....
Girls react different ways. Some are very imature and not very responsible. I know a girl who got pregnant very young simply because she used to go around all the time saying she was dying for "her hole" as she called it. As a young girl, she does even know who the father is, since it could have been any of a bad lot really... Refused to use condoms or anything because she said she didn't like them....
Very immature girl... and since her baby was born, very irresponsible... its her mother who's raising it while she's off smoking and drinking with her friends every night.
Then again, I also know of other girls who REALLY got their **** together after having a baby when young. I've seen girls turn around and stop hanging around with the losers that got her into the situation, I've seen them go from being immature and no real ambition, to getting out there, getting a job, trying to go do college, and get their life going somewhere. Really makes them grow up fast and get their **** together because they need to now.
Either way I'd say you gottta realise what comes with going out with a mom but if that doesn't bother you, then I'd say its not a problem, its fairly easy which of the two types of girls above, your girl is, just by being around her.
A senior Don Juan suggests taking a girl on a date to the grocery store? As a treat...lol...
Theres nothing wrong with young moms but IMO, and this isn't great Don Juan advice, its only experience of people I've known in life....
Girls react different ways. Some are very imature and not very responsible. I know a girl who got pregnant very young simply because she used to go around all the time saying she was dying for "her hole" as she called it. As a young girl, she does even know who the father is, since it could have been any of a bad lot really... Refused to use condoms or anything because she said she didn't like them....
Very immature girl... and since her baby was born, very irresponsible... its her mother who's raising it while she's off smoking and drinking with her friends every night.
Then again, I also know of other girls who REALLY got their **** together after having a baby when young. I've seen girls turn around and stop hanging around with the losers that got her into the situation, I've seen them go from being immature and no real ambition, to getting out there, getting a job, trying to go do college, and get their life going somewhere. Really makes them grow up fast and get their **** together because they need to now.
Either way I'd say you gottta realise what comes with going out with a mom but if that doesn't bother you, then I'd say its not a problem, its fairly easy which of the two types of girls above, your girl is, just by being around her.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=56161TommiV said:Lol.... Are you serious?
A senior Don Juan suggests taking a girl on a date to the grocery store? As a treat...lol...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I like this idea,perhaps she can come with me to look at some furniture I was planning on buying. Iam also looking for a new TV,perhaps she can come with me to do that. Genuis idea! I get work done,have fun, and perhaps may end up getting some in the end. Thank you.SamePendo said: