"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Date Ideas (Places to go & things to do)

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Things can start getting monotonous, esp if in an LTR since after a point of time you start running out of ideas so suggest some activities here to help fellow Don-Juaners. :eek:

1. The Zoo : I took my date to the zoo, because I hadnt gone there since i was a kid, t'was good experience,
Good place to go if you want to build an LTR, i'd imagine it would get strange taking every date to the zoo. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've mentioned it before and I'll mention it again:

Ice skating or roller blading.

It's a perfect way to build up the kino and you both have fun. So is any other 'active activity'.

btw. I realize this has been done before but it's a good idea to make a whole thread of this with everyone giving an example for a fun date.
 
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Originally posted by Caveman


btw. I realize this has been done before but it's a good idea to make a whole thread of this with everyone giving an example for a fun date.
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If this was done before you got a link for it ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Golf. Gives you chance to "grind" when showing her the "correct" way to hit a ball :)
 
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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
If this was done before you got a link for it ?
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15032

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58045

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57758

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56128

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53751

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53347

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53369

And I am sure there are many more. It would be cool though to have 1 thread from which you pick out simple new ideas.
 
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Originally posted by Caveman
And I am sure there are many more. ... up a sticky where people could suggest ideas
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I dont want to claim another guys ideas as my own, but, here's an idea. For the first date my rule is to never spend more than 15$. Im not trying to steal another guys ideas, but, this solves three things. First it gets rid of golddiggers, second it keeps you creative, and third it keeps you from wasting money on a girl that may not work out. Take her to the park, then milkshakes, or my favorite. Pick her up and have a picnic it gives you a chance to to find out what she is like. I also take a pad of paper with me and have her draw pictures. I havent had a girl say no to drawing pictures and usually its a great way to see how her personality is.
 
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Going to a graveyard (AT DAY!). This is not a satanic tip, actually graveyards are one of the most calm places that exist, this is a good place to talk about deep stuff if you feel the need, look at the gravestones and get some motivation to live your life. It also reduces stress ALOT. This is for the LTRs not the first date. And... try not to go... "Howabout a visit at the graveyard at friday? Pick you up at 7!"

I like to play laser game or something like that, it's very fun and girls are generally lousy at it. It get into some ACTION. Most often I get a group together and then talk with the girl I am interested in after we have played and everyone is loaded with endorphines. So this is a predatething for me.

I have not tried this and it is not suited for a first date, but doing a tandem jump with parachute would be awesome, or bungee jump.

Well basicly everything you like is good, if the girl doesn't like it, you've got the wrong girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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me: hey sweets, wanna head down to the graveyard this friday morning? we could do breakfast after that.

her: what???!! not even two months into the relationship and you've already dug a grave for me?

:D

just kiddin. but graveyards aint for me. typical first date would be an action date. maintain the mystery. so i'd go bowling. and it gives you a chance to kino her if she really sucks. (teach her how to hold the ball, the poise the stance, whatever.) and even if she's good, she'd pretend to be bad at it if she's got a high level of interest in you, just so you can help her out. heh. BOWLING.
 
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