"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Date Ideas? (Non FAQ)

CarbonFX

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Yeah, I need some date ideas for the winter during the night 11pm - 3am time period. Now there is also alot of snow lying around which could complicate things. So far I got down a few:

Movies (yeah flame me)
Bowling after movies.
or
Just chat at Starbucks which wrecks of lame and boring.

You guys have any action date ideas for a night time winter setting? Obviously no mini golf or mall, or amusement parks. That's what my concern is, I can't really go into the city because it's too far and for night time it's not worth it, I work 7 days a week.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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playaslaya

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Take her to a ****ing bar, man. dont spend too much $ on women other than your GF.
 

Aragon034

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playaslaya said:
Take her to a ****ing bar, man. dont spend too much $ on women other than your GF.
what if the girl isn't into the bar scene?

go toboganning, make a snowman, have a spontaneous snowball fight, have some cocoa on a balcony, go to a tea shop, go skiing/snowboarding, skating, go box a kangaroo, watch a movie at home with her, make shrinky dinks or gingerbread cookies, etc etc...

there's alot of things you can do.
 

CarbonFX

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Mmm, that's correct, she's not into the bar scene at all.

But those are some great ideas I like making the snowman idea. I'll see what else I can think of during my free time, this just goes for all girls not this one lol.

Thanks
 
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