I actually took someone up no their offer to go on a date, and heres what im thinking. Since i am in college, i figure we would go to a nice restaraunt for dinner and get some good convo in, then we could go back and relax, listen to music, and have a couple of drinks. what do you guys think. what could i do to improve if anything?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The restaraunt that you take her to... make sure its not just some common cheap-ass place, take her somewhere where she has probably never been before.
And afterwards when u wanna chill and have a few drinks... nothing wrong with that... sounds like a decent night out... have fun.
Laterz...
And afterwards when u wanna chill and have a few drinks... nothing wrong with that... sounds like a decent night out... have fun.
Laterz...
ya... but...
If there is one thing that i am NOT, that is BORING... Thats also why i would have sex with girls that are not HB9's, which is my standard for a gf, but i would f*ck them to gain experiance from them, and to keep my game strong... i'm not saying i'm gonna go get with ugly girls, but i'm talking HB7's is lowest i'd go, and there are HB7's EVERYWHERE, you just gotta spot them The more practice u get, the better you will get, and when u DO hook up with the HB9's, which u WANT to impress, u deffinatelly WILL impress them!! ... so in context with the thread... take her to places that u would take an HB9 to, even if u DONT like her, make impressing chicks into a habit rather than something that you need to go out of your way to do... and plus... this chick WILL go to all of her friends and tell them what a wonderfull time she had with you... and guess what that will lead to... yip! u guessed it... that will lead to her FRIENDS thinking that u are a kewl guy, then they will want to meet you, and eventually u'll be baning all of them ... well, maybe not ALL of them... but you get my point
Laterz...
If i dont like her THAT much, i'll still do it for the PRACTICE .. plus... i like doing things differently natrually
If there is one thing that i am NOT, that is BORING... Thats also why i would have sex with girls that are not HB9's, which is my standard for a gf, but i would f*ck them to gain experiance from them, and to keep my game strong... i'm not saying i'm gonna go get with ugly girls, but i'm talking HB7's is lowest i'd go, and there are HB7's EVERYWHERE, you just gotta spot them The more practice u get, the better you will get, and when u DO hook up with the HB9's, which u WANT to impress, u deffinatelly WILL impress them!! ... so in context with the thread... take her to places that u would take an HB9 to, even if u DONT like her, make impressing chicks into a habit rather than something that you need to go out of your way to do... and plus... this chick WILL go to all of her friends and tell them what a wonderfull time she had with you... and guess what that will lead to... yip! u guessed it... that will lead to her FRIENDS thinking that u are a kewl guy, then they will want to meet you, and eventually u'll be baning all of them ... well, maybe not ALL of them... but you get my point Laterz...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hmmm.....
The arkwardness of "stuffing your face with food" finds a way to dissapear
Laterz...
I found that taking girls to chinese restaraunts is a winner... if you KNOW how to eat with chop-sticks etc, then u can teach her and have fun + get kino going.... If you both dont know how to eat with chop-sticks, then u can both laugh at eachother and try eat with chop-sticks... i find this kinda date to be really fun and progressive... try it
The arkwardness of "stuffing your face with food" finds a way to dissapear Laterz...
PRMoon
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Take her to a Fondu restarunt, if you find one. It's fun easy and it gives you a chance to feed her chocolate covered strawberries! Always a winner plus you can usually order a booth with a nice love seat so you and your girl can sit side by side and get some quality kino in.
Afterwards, coctails are a good idea, nice to get a little lose after a meal like that. Maybe a brisk midnight stroll or something but that's up to you. I like to walk with girls because it definately turns up the romance dial and it shows them that you're interested in just spending some time with them. Both of which gets you serious points.
Afterwards, coctails are a good idea, nice to get a little lose after a meal like that. Maybe a brisk midnight stroll or something but that's up to you. I like to walk with girls because it definately turns up the romance dial and it shows them that you're interested in just spending some time with them. Both of which gets you serious points.
diablo
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