"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Date idea

anointed

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Looking for a date idea. A sweeping-her-off-her-feet kinda place. Who has some ideas of where they usually take girls to get them overwhelmed with emotion and ****? Im thinking dinner near some beach where theres a nice view then laying it on her while taking a walk.. . although music might be good too? I took a girl to a concert once with boyz2men and she was all flustered and started passionatly making out wiht me during the singing. LOL

ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nvictor

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Surf?
Skydiving?
Skating?
Help her while cooking at your place?
Babysit children at kindergarten?
A trip to anoter city with only little money, you would ask for food...

Well I hope you get the idea
 

anointed

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the situation is that this girls IL in me is medium. So i wana try set the frame with the environment aswell as the conversation then Im gonna just lay one on her throwing caution to the wind regardless of her IL. I know the date will go wwell.. so her IL will probably be more.. but anyway.. do you think those kinda action dates really do the job of setting that mood im talking about?? im asking seriously cos i dunno.
 

damnbugs

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How about taking her to a game? There has to be some sporting event going on around you? Get involved in the game cheering and turn and kiss her in celebration like its the normal thing to do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm not getting this. You prefer her having a higher interest level in an activity rather than in you?
 

JPFromTally

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Contrary to popular belief the more money and effort you put into a date, especially a first date, the less likely the girl is to like you and put out.

On another thread I talk about a girl that I met who works at Borders who's close to being an HB9. Essentially, I called her and told her to meet at an upper class pool hall the next day. I bought two pitchers of beer, we played a couple of rounds of darts where there was lots of kino, made out in the back deck and then I invited her back to my place. She followed me home and then drove herself home in the morning.

If you don't have chemistry no amount of money you spend will make her like you.
 
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