"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking for a date idea. A sweeping-her-off-her-feet kinda place. Who has some ideas of where they usually take girls to get them overwhelmed with emotion and ****? Im thinking dinner near some beach where theres a nice view then laying it on her while taking a walk.. . although music might be good too? I took a girl to a concert once with boyz2men and she was all flustered and started passionatly making out wiht me during the singing. LOL

ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surf?
Skydiving?
Skating?
Help her while cooking at your place?
Babysit children at kindergarten?
A trip to anoter city with only little money, you would ask for food...

Well I hope you get the idea
 
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the situation is that this girls IL in me is medium. So i wana try set the frame with the environment aswell as the conversation then Im gonna just lay one on her throwing caution to the wind regardless of her IL. I know the date will go wwell.. so her IL will probably be more.. but anyway.. do you think those kinda action dates really do the job of setting that mood im talking about?? im asking seriously cos i dunno.
 
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How about taking her to a game? There has to be some sporting event going on around you? Get involved in the game cheering and turn and kiss her in celebration like its the normal thing to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm not getting this. You prefer her having a higher interest level in an activity rather than in you?
 
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Contrary to popular belief the more money and effort you put into a date, especially a first date, the less likely the girl is to like you and put out.

On another thread I talk about a girl that I met who works at Borders who's close to being an HB9. Essentially, I called her and told her to meet at an upper class pool hall the next day. I bought two pitchers of beer, we played a couple of rounds of darts where there was lots of kino, made out in the back deck and then I invited her back to my place. She followed me home and then drove herself home in the morning.

If you don't have chemistry no amount of money you spend will make her like you.
 
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