"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its probably cause I don't live on this forum and log on here"periodically" when I have something occur in "real life" ..... Thats probably why I can't relate to the in depth analysis to a 1 line sentence I sent a girl on POF whom I could care less about it. I know it means I do care according to a lot of you right?? I am beta now because I sent that... absolutely terrible, I put her back on her pedestal... she is now validated! Omg!!!!! lol

Alright I'm out till the next adventure, while I'm not thinking about this anymore keep posting your feedback, I'll be out in the field. Till the next adventure!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LOL, "Please support my approach journal".
 
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zinc4 said:
If you don't care about the girl one way or the other and you don't plan on getting with her then i don't see the point in a reply at all......

And your reply went out of your way to state that you weren't interested in her..like you even needed to tell her that in the first place.....would you go out of your way to tell someone that who you were not the least bit threatened by and who you genuinely pitied???? of course not....

that is childish/beta behavior...no offense...you got a 37-year-old disrespectful cougar....just pity her and let her be on her way...i usually just pump and dump these types and be done with them forever....no point in twisting the knife and saying by the way, we met and i am not interested in you...that is coming from a position of inferiority not superiority...
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Agree.


The opposite of love or like is not hate or dislike OP, it's indifference. Your response only gave her the satisfaction she wanted, needed....that she craved, in her belief that she did the right thing by walking out on you and that you are not worth the paper she wiped her azz with this morning.

Learn from this and grow.
 
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This thread got ridiculous; mods, just close it already.
 
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Danger said:
If you took the advice, you would eventually reach that level of game as well.

I can't believe you have been here 11 years and still haven't learned this $hit. But, keep crying instead of learning.

Beta's gonna beta.



And this is my third time asking.....What was her reply? And why do you keep avoiding this question?
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I liked the "did you go back and pay?" message idea. It puts her on the spot and lets her know that she didn't get away with anything. I would have loved to hear her response to that one.

With what he ended up writing her, she will either ignore him or be a b1tch about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Danger said:
And this is my third time asking.....What was her reply? And why do you keep avoiding this question?
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There was no reply. She got a reaction out of him, which is what she wanted.
 
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