Date flake by text how do you react?

[TheGambino]

I had a weak spot for her since our hour phone calls which we got sexual in, she was very soft, open up and 'loving' towards me, i remained ****y funny, bit romantic and kept everything fun. Next to the times i asked her to do something I never told her I liked her or anything, when she said something I didnt like I even told her: ok were done and push pulled a lot, she made the best signs possible and initiated a date herself for the same day in the afternoon(2hours later). I rescheduled and she cancelled I replied with 'ok' no emotion no blabla, its like bein invested but simply walk away like no sh1t (in her eyes). oh and dont forget we kissed once really fast so its not that she doenst give a sh1t at all im positive bout that.

ok main thing bro's: I nexted her ripped her number, if she ever texts me i will ignore her. You guys know I had a weak spot for her but she doens't know. I showed her that i can walk away anytime coz when i said ok nevermind to something a couple of days ago she paniced.

 

[pyros]

I just dont understand you guys.
If a chick flakes, you all start doing hypotesis of what is best to reply. In my humble opinion if you reply something like 'no problem' 'ok' 'fine babe' etc, it just implies that you find it perfectly correct to flake on a date for whatever silly/stupid/fake reason she gave you, so you're positioning yourself as a low status man, and a wussy.

If a damn chick flakes on a date, just ignore her and forget about her and DO NOT REPLY at all. This way you subtly tell her that you do not accept **** + that you expect respect because you have high status + you have high standards. It also sends the message that you do not really care about her, so she will start to think why do you show not much interest now (did he fake his interest in me? does he have a gf? is there anything wrong with me?)

After this, if SHE contacts you, tries to reach you etc etc, do not show much enthusiasm unless she clearly wants to see you in person.

My two cents.

 

[nismo-4]

Why don't you know what to do?......I've already told you what to do.....you already read my thread and commented on it.....you should read it again.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208637


Being indifferent doesn't mean sh!t if the chick has no interest in you.....because she doesn't give a sh!t about you!!

Uninterested chicks will just play games with you and string you along.....they are not interested in hanging out/fvcking you........as you have found out

You keep wasting your time on them....you feed them more attention.....they laugh at you behind your back...they string you along for a date...you show your desperation....then they make another excuse...then they flake....then you end up with nothing!!

Then those two guys who wrote in my thread want to keep pursuing them LOL

Like I said, it' a waste of time.....it took you all that time to learn she wasn't interested, when you could've known that when she flaked by text.

Interested chicks don't flake.....they want to see you

Uninterested chicks flake/make excuses...they don't want to see you

When a chick flakes....put her at the bottom of your list.....don't ask her out again until she shows some real interest in you....interested chicks will always want to see you..in fact you won't have to ask them out....they will be asking you out!!

This is another great example of what I've been talking about!!

The part I made big is what I've been preaching for the longest.

 

[user name]

Nobody is advising OP to be indifferent to get the girl.

We are saying be indifferent about her apparent rejection rather than getting all obsessed about her and developing Oneitis...

Sheesh.

 

[Solomon]

I just dont understand you guys.
If a chick flakes, you all start doing hypotesis of what is best to reply. In my humble opinion if you reply something like 'no problem' 'ok' 'fine babe' etc, it just implies that you find it perfectly correct to flake on a date for whatever silly/stupid/fake reason she gave you, so you're positioning yourself as a low status man, and a wussy.

If a damn chick flakes on a date, just ignore her and forget about her and DO NOT REPLY at all. This way you subtly tell her that you do not accept **** + that you expect respect because you have high status + you have high standards. It also sends the message that you do not really care about her, so she will start to think why do you show not much interest now (did he fake his interest in me? does he have a gf? is there anything wrong with me?)

After this, if SHE contacts you, tries to reach you etc etc, do not show much enthusiasm unless she clearly wants to see you in person.

My two cents.

but but but..what if she is sick? or her grandma died? or her car broke down?