"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Date Cancelled

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Hi Guyz.. just wanna Post this n hear ur thoughts, comments, opinions or how u Analyze this went.

Met this Chic a 3 Weeks Ago...n was suppose to go out on a Date wif her Tonite.... Everything was planned out n She Cancelled on the Last minute.. n even had a Friend Gurl to come wif her.

On my way there She Sms me this

"Hey Babe, i'm really Sorry i have to Cancel tonight, Long Story, I feel i've F***ed u around enough, my Life is Confusing at the moment so i think it's best to just say it was great to meet you, let just leave at that. Sorry again, Best wishes! Sorry for Cowardly Message Too.."


I had a Mindset.. of just takin it Easy and not expectin an Outcome n Just Have Fun. But now i'm thinking Wat Da Crap just Happened.



-JuLiuZ C.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DarthJuan

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If you met six weeks ago and you're only now going out on a date, she's already lost interest/found a new guy/testing you/something else.

Just play it off like it doesn't bother you.
 

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Correction 3 weeks Ago.. not sure if that Matters haha
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DarthJuan said:
If you met six weeks ago and you're only now going out on a date, she's already lost interest/found a new guy/testing you/something else.

Just play it off like it doesn't bother you.
Yep, her expiration date was about two weeks ago. Clean out the refrigerator, she's gone bad and is beginning to smell.
 

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Sounds like it's over. Don't expect to hear from her again, and probably a waste of your time trying to contact her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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As soon as you got that text you should have just deleted the number.

That's it. No reply text, no asking questions, delete it and forget it
 

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Yeh.. when i Met Her.. she Broke up wif Her Fiance.. like 3 Weeks Ago... so she's a little Bit Confused...

Can i come over her House n do a SH*T on the Front Door haha

I haven't replied to her Yet or Done Anything.. i'm Not Upset or Bothered.. just Not Sure What 2 make of it...


-SeS
 

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Sesar said:
.. Fiance.. like 3 Weeks Ago... so she's a little Bit Confused...


-SeS
Sounds like drama you should be avoiding.

Count yourself lucky.

You could have just been a pawn to get back at her fiance.
They're probably have angry make up sex.
 

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Sesar said:
I had a Mindset.. of just takin it Easy and not expectin an Outcome n Just Have Fun. But now i'm thinking Wat Da Crap just Happened.
You should have had the more extreme mindset of not expecting utterly anything.
 

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Yeh.. Ur Right MacDiddy.. I liked her as a Person.. when i talked to Her, N she was Easy n Casual...

She was Very Polite.. and Calls Me after I sms her.. instead mucking around Messaging Back.. So i Gave Her the Treatment of Being a Good Person.


I Still Want 2 SH*T in Her Front Door hahah
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Instead of making the date in advance, you should have called her and said something like, "Hey, I'm busy tuesday, wednesday, and friday, but I got some free time on thursday. Wanna go out for some coffee or something?" When she says yes, say, "Okay, call me on thursday." Then make other tentative plans, that way you at least have something to do if she doesn't call, you still got something to do. Chances are, she will call you on thursday, and if so, go out on the date if you don't have another one lined up. Women are pretty blatant about flaking out at the last minute, like it's no big deal. All ya gotta do is eliminate her ability to flake on you by being a little more spontaneous.
 

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Hi Hi... I thought i share this wif U...

I got one of my Chic Friends... to Analayze n Read it 4 me.. n she said i should reply to it.. so i played along.. Sms her Back.

This is what my Chic Friend Replied Back Wif

"Hey Sorry about the Late Reply but i've been Thinking what to Say. I understand right now u need a friend right now 2 give u support n if u like that can be me? :) Would u like 2 catch up this week anytime, if u do not feel comfortable wif this sms pls don't feel like u have 2 reply"


-SeS
 

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Sesar said:
Hi Hi... I thought i share this wif U...

I got one of my Chic Friends... to Analayze n Read it 4 me.. n she said i should reply to it.. so i played along.. Sms her Back.

This is what my Chic Friend Replied Back Wif

"Hey Sorry about the Late Reply but i've been Thinking what to Say. I understand right now u need a friend right now 2 give u support n if u like that can be me? :) Would u like 2 catch up this week anytime, if u do not feel comfortable wif this sms pls don't feel like u have 2 reply"


-SeS
If you want to become one of her "girlfriends" that's fine.
 
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That was a straight out knock out punch rejection!! She talks like a hor!!!!!
 

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What is with all this talk of hors??? Unless you get a virgin you are getting a hor. Problem with these hors that you boys like is simple. They have a bad taste in their mouth when it comes to males (no pun intended). Why spend the effort and time changing their perception of the entire male species?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop Using Capitals On Every Word!
and don't go on dates with women, just arrange to meet her at the club and then take her back to her place and put her face through the bedsprings!
 

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Thats a nice way of saying she not interested. Don't contact her again it's a done deal.
 

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Speakin of Which... I took that Chic Friend(My Date).. wif me clubbing Last Nite wif a group of friends... then sometime during the night.. she dissappears wif my best M8.. back @ his house..

I ask them where they r n no reply.. blah blah blah..

I wasn't very impressed.. Got there n made some story blah blah..

Ok maybe my Chic friend is Hor yeh... if u say????



Ta
 

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Dude, you got more to learn... if your best mate has more game or a wilder personality, then its not a good idea to intro her to him even in a group setting. You've just vouched for him to her and its just too easy.. Plus she was already flaky on you anyway...
 
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