"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dark eyes.

dastal

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I was thinking of getting contacts for my glasses, but my eyelids are much darker than the rest of my face. It looks like I loaded up on crack just before I went to school. I dont need iron or vitamins or anything becaus I had blood work done when I went for a checkup, and everything was fine. Could someone tell me whats wrong, and how to correct it. Ill try to get a picture if I can.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know what dark eyelids have to do with getting contacts.

To put up a picture, you have to upload it somewhere online and then provide a link to it.

How to change the dark skin color of your eye lids? I have no idea, makeup? At least I bumped your topic.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Definetly need some pics. A few tips though:

- Sleep more. If you're not getting 7-9 hours of sleep a night, you're not getting enough. Lack of sleep can really darken those bags under your eyes.

- Drink lots of water. Shoot for a gallon a day. It might seem excessive, but water is used in every body process, so it's pretty damn vital.

- If the dark circles are really bad, you can always get eye cream. Just make sure you dab it on (don't rub), as the skin around your eyes is incredibly sensitive, and you can easily make things worse by rubbing.
 

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If you're not getting 7-9 hours of sleep a night
I get at least 7 a day most days, ill try to sleep more.

I drink over a gallon a day.

whats the eye cream called?

Thanks. youre the only one who knows anything about this.
 

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There're a bunch of different eye creams out there. Oil of Olay makes a few varieties, although they may be rather expensive. I'm sure there are plenty of others, just hit up the cosmetics section at your local drugstore some day.

Now that I think about it, your dark circles might also be due to a vitamin deficiency; specifically D and E. I know when I started taking a daily multi-vitamin I saw a huge difference in the dark circles under my eyes, and my skin-tone overall. Don't expect multi-vitamins to work miracles though... there's no better source of vitamins than whole foods.
 
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I have the best under-eye combination in the world. I have tried many products for dark under-eye ciircles until I stumbled across a recipe.

First go to Walgreens and get the "sudden change under-eye serum" Which would run you about 8 bucks. The second product you need is the "sudden change green tea under eye gel" That would run about 10 dollars. But for me, I just rob that sh*t. easy too

Now when you wake up each morning, put a drop of the serum on your fingertips and glide it under both f your eyes. Wipe off the excess serum if it spreads all over. Next, take your index fingers and put them on the side of your eyes and stretch them ******ds towards your ears. Like your are trying to be oriental. Keep that state for about a minute until the serum dries under your eyes.

Now dip your finger in the green tea gel and glide it over the dried serum and you are set. The serum makes the under-eye bags disappear and the gel reflects the light making the darkness disappear
 

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bump for this
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have the same problem too.

I now get 8 hours of sleep every night, go to sleep every night at 10:30 except some Fridays/Saturdays, I take Vitamin D and E.

I used to drink lots of water, and that never helped. Sometimes I've eaten loads of peanuts and that didn't help either.

I really don't want to rely on creams and whatnot. What else can it be?

I've noticed the darkness gets better over the course of the day, but when I get home at night they are still there, just a bit better. Most of the time I feel pretty tired when I wake up, but even on the days when I get a perfect night sleep and I feel great when I wake up, I still have bags.
 
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