"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dark circles

Embrace

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Does anyone else have dark circles under your eyes?

Mine are genetic. My mom gave them to me, as well as my sister.

I dont want to wear makeup, I want to fix the dark circles. There are creams and stuf out but my mom claims that they don't work. I dont know what would then. Surgery perhaps?

I'm not self concious or anything, but when going through things I want to improve about my self its a lot of physical stuff.

I'm 17 years old, 115lb about 5'5". I'm not a big kid, so I want to bulk up.
I have depression genetically, which im getting treatment for
I have acne, which im getting treatment for.

So bulking up and curing dark cirlces are my next physical goals.

Any sugestions? Not on bulking up, but curing dark circles under my eyes.

-Jesse

ps, I dont want to hear any flaming. This is the right spot for the thread.

A healthy Don Juan who feels and looks good is a chick magnet. Discuss strength training, aerobic exercise, nutritional supplements, sports supplements or anything else designed to help you feel and look your very best.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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simon

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If they're genetic, and you've tried getting enough sleep, water, eating well etc. then it's probably best you used a tinted moisturiser under the eye area.
 

Cash

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depression and dark eyes?

Sounds like anemia, like iron or Vit B deficiency or genetic anemia like thalassemia or variants of sickle cell. You should get tested.
 

Scrumtulescence

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Dark circles could be caused by anything. They can even be caused by sinus/nasal problems, which I think is the cause of mine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheLadiesMan

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Drink a crap load of water, get a lot of rest... take some multi-vit and you should get rid of them.

Drink LOTS of water.
 
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