DanStan's Bootcamp Journal

[danstan]

OK guys, I'm jumpin' in. Into the unknown of suave-dom. I am currently attending a JC. There are some pretty girls here, but not that many. My goal of course, is to overcome my AFC-ness.

My guess right now, is that it's hard for me to talk to pretty girls since they are so rare around here. When I see one, I get so excited, I freeze up and get very nervous.

I am starting to get some IOI's when I go out. I have noticed when girls stare at me, they won't look me in the eye. Instead, they come up, stand next to me, then stare PAST me! That way, they can stare as long as they want, without drawing suspicion about their intentions.

Let's see how quickly I can transform from an AFC to sosuave don juan.

One other thing: I live at home. How do I get hookups going without having this privacy?

DT spike

 

[danstan]

I had a rather eye opening experience over the weekend. I head out to a bar, it's supposed to be packed with HB's. Not even close, but there's a few good ones. I'm out alone, so I feel kinda out of it.

I do see a blonde, passably attractive girl at the bar. I am standing behind her in line. She stares and stares and stares directly past me. It's getting unnerving after a minute or so. I think in retrospect she wanted me to open her. Anyway, her eyes are bulging open and she is staring at something who knows what.

I see her a few minutes later giving IOI's to some massively fat guy. She is leaning in, toothy grin and all. She is making out with him now! So, I spike her buying temperature, then she goes for it with some guy who recognizes she is now in heat. My loss.

 

[j0n024]

Good luck dude ...you will get better after a while dont get discouraged! But I think you have to learn to not give a fvck about what anyone thinks of you as long as you think highly of yourself and after that nothing should unnerve you.....besides things really fvcked up like in scary movies lol. Good luck and hope to see you in the near future decimating all the guys in the clubs!