"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dan's No Fap Journal

Dan08

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Ok, I've decided to go no fap and just see what it brings to me for my life as well as give me a goal to aim towards on my step towards improvement. You may ask why I'm doing a journal for this or why is this not in the DJ Discussion section.
Basically I don't think a journal about fapping or in this case not warrants attention that much and when I update this sporadically I don't want to clog up that section so I figure Anything Else is kinda harmless so it'll go here unless the mods think otherwise of course.

As for making a journal of this, it won't be a day by day update except perhaps early on so I can have you guys for support (no homo ;) ) and in reality it's for my benefit to be held accountable and finally to put down my feelings and what I feel from it as and when it occurs in the hope that others may find it interesting when reading as there isn't anything else that I can see currently on SS like this but also to inspire them to do the same.
If I succumb I start from zilch, first aim is 1 month.

So yeah, I've knuckle shuffled the last one out for quite some time now hopefully.


Milestones

1 month -
2 months -
3 months -
4 months -
5 months -
6 months -
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dan08

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Day #1

Nothing to report really, not feeling a need to w@nk but it's only been a day so far so I'm sure it'll hit home in the coming days.
I'm working later so won't have any excuse to knuckle shuffle. Will post back in a couple days.
 

Dan08

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Still going strong here 6 days in, couple of observations to make however.

1. I feel calmer, if a situation arises that pisses me off then I find myself taking the time to think things through and act rationally (this could be temporary due to reduced T in the system)

2. I feel better since doing this as mentally I'm achieving my goal so it allows me to feel better about myself.

3. I have an occasional dull ache in my balls >.< I'm guessing from all the jizz I'm storing up but ill keep an eye on it.
 

Dan08

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Ok so I'm 10 days in and it feels like it's been a helluva lot longer!

Today so far has been tough, woke up this morning and the first thing on my mind was sex/p0rn and having a w@nk. Needless to say I haven't but it was tough!

No other noticeable changes to me.
 

SamTheHobit

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inst these journals embarrassing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No fap is pointless. Possibly even bad for your health. Just don't look at porn. Masturbation & ejaculation is healthy.
 

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Korrupt said:
No fap is pointless. Possibly even bad for your health. Just don't look at porn. Masturbation & ejaculation is healthy.
true. porn is what creates that numbing effect via secretion of excess dopamine to "hardcore" visualization.
 

Dan08

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Well I'm kicking this one back into gear guys. I've fapped something serious recently to p0rn and I want to do this again just for my benefit of succeeding in it, getting increased testosterone so Day 1 begins again now.


Day 1 - DONE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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haha, you fall off quick man. I'm at day 15, I've gone to bed a few times with blue balls, but I was able to get some action in there so I don't have it too bad. Just get some plates spinning and you'll save yourself some temptation. Believe me I've had some.
 

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Justin Time said:
haha, you fall off quick man. I'm at day 15, I've gone to bed a few times with blue balls, but I was able to get some action in there so I don't have it too bad. Just get some plates spinning and you'll save yourself some temptation. Believe me I've had some.
Oh my god dude, blue balls is so uncomfortable. The worst is when you google "how to relieve blue balls" and everyone says "sorry bro, you just gotta finish the job", lol. I packed some ice into my drawers once but it didn't help much. I just had to ride out the day with a terrible ache in my left nut. Every time you sit...bend...it just reminds you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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