"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Danica Patrick

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I have nothing but respect for women who are talented in acting, music, or sport like Danick Patrick (Indy Car Racing). But why do they have to turn into skanks and pose for men's magazines like FHM, Maxim, Stuff, or even Playboy? Does Patrick really feel she has to prove to us that she's beautiful? It must be the $$$. When chicks do stuff like that their ceditability with me goes down the tubes. Like they're just another ***** trying to get by on looks. Never mind any "legitimate" skill.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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woman will always choose to prove that hey are better looking and cuter then all others. You'll rarly see them on a trip trying to prove they are smarter or more skilled then other women.

She wants to be that "cute little hottie that drives a car" not a normal driver.

(womans competition at work)
 

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Originally posted by Tyrone Biggums
Does Patrick really feel she has to prove to us that she's beautiful? It must be the $$$. When chicks do stuff like that their ceditability with me goes down the tubes. Like they're just another ***** trying to get by on looks. Never mind any "legitimate" skill.
She wouldn't have done them if money wasn't involved. Of coarse its all about the MONEY. If someone offered you a quater of a million dollars to wear boxer shirts in order to promote some stupid cologne, are you telling me you are going to turn it down??? Its called "Sports Entertainment" for a reason. You are being entertatin one way or another, but if the media focuses too much on her, then the sport of itself can suffer from lack of attention and so is the entertainment. In tennis no one cared about ugly woman winning but as soon as Anna K came to the scene you had men coming in drove's and thus increase the attention to the sport among women competitors.

The only thing that bothers me is that she is not a good driver and is getting all the promo's because she is a good looking female. Many males do not make as much while probably winning more races. Its not her show.
 

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I think 90% of the famous people the media tries to portray as beautiful are ugly as fuk........including the girl you mentioned!
 

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danica patrick is not even hot....in my scale shes hardly an 8.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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