"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Me and HB8 at work started hitting it off and we have a date set for an "all day event" Saturday because she "has nothing going on".. super high il...

Only problem is she just broke up with someone whom also works with me...

She has told me of the drama at work on their shift.. but has not revield the name of the person whom she split up with.. [story goes he dumped her]...

So I wont even go into the details of the said drama.. but...

We are highly attracted to one another.. I guess I would be the worlds best rebound lol...

Sooo... thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Take the information as a yellow flag but don't let it stop you from seeing her. What he told you could be 100% truth. We all know women and drama are like finger and hand. But it also could be a decoy. Maybe subconsciously deep in the back chambers of the guy's mind he wants to date her and is jealous, so he is fabricating the drama in an attempt to scare you off so he can swoop in for himself. People are not trustworthy anymore. Even the ones who genuinely do have your interest at heart deep deep down are going to be more for themselves when it gets to "you or them". So yeah move forward but just have an open mind and go cautiously. Good luck.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
[...]she just broke up with someone whom also works with me... [...]
I guess you would be the worlds best rebound lol...
 

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Ok well after a super flirty session yesterday and her approaching ke in the middle of my work.. and leaving by saying to text her because she will be up...

I text her..

"Hey babe"

And she no replys.. I figure she fell asleep and will reply when she gets to work... nope.

So I text again...

"Ok.. nvm"

Maybe there is a reason why "he dumped her."

I literally did the hand of god and spun her in the middle of the warehouse... she about had an orjasm right there.. I know I felt like a bad @ss...

Derrr what gives?

I think Im going to give her the cold shoulder and maybe retract my date offer... she is going to miss out if she don't get it together.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
Ok well after a super flirty session yesterday and her approaching ke in the middle of my work.. and leaving by saying to text her because she will be up...

I text her..

"Hey babe"

And she no replys.. I figure she fell asleep and will reply when she gets to work... nope.

So I text again...

"Ok.. nvm"

Maybe there is a reason why "he dumped her."

I literally did the hand of god and spun her in the middle of the warehouse... she about had an orjasm right there.. I know I felt like a bad @ss...

Derrr what gives?

I think Im going to give her the cold shoulder and maybe retract my date offer... she is going to miss out if she don't get it together.

*UPDATE*

I walk in to work and she comes up to me all cheery and dancing and says "What's up?!" I say "nothing.. you tell me.."

I bring up her jot responding to my text... in the middle of a busy intersection we swap out our phones to see that she did not recieve my last 2 messages I sent her.. and so she resets her phone.. still didnt get my message.. We send eachother a message and the service is clearly messed up because it showed on her phone that I didnt recieve a message she just sent me...


Sooo I guess everything was all good the whole time.. she literally did not get my messages..

It is on.. she looks extra nice today.. I guess her thinking I didnt text when she asked me to was a good thing because she is all dolled up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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