"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yep. I know how to dance with a girl. Of course I do. It's an essencial part of flirting with girls at the disco.

But what about dancing alone?

I dunno how do dance alone. I watch other guys and they look ridiculous. They can't dance too. But that doesn't confort me. I want to dance better than them.

Have you never seen a girl at the disco that dances really well? Even if she isn't pretty looking or really hot, she looks like a 10 just because she's dancing really sexy.

Well, I want to dance at the same level when I'm alone and have the same effect on girls.

Is there anything (like a movie or something) that teaches how to dance?
Or maybe you could describe some of the basic steps to perform at the disco.

Please don't tell me to go to a dance school. It's expensive and I don't have time for that.

thanks a lot :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When i'm really into my music in a club I tend to dance with my eyes closed. It might sound stupid but i do it without thinking. Anyway, I find that when i'm really enjoying myself, then people come up to me and dance with me - girls especially.

The point i'm trying to make is don't force something on yourself. If your not having a good time then it'll show.

but yea like El MonoLoco says...dance like nobody is watching - or close your eyes for a bit!
 
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that ain't stupid. I close my eyes while dancing too.

I just wanted some basic steps to dance.

Some really basic steps just to get this going.

thanx for the help
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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try these steps. Works for me:

Two on the left
Two on the right
Slide to the right
Slide to the left
Take it back now yal
One hop this time
Right foot lets stomp
Left foot lets stomp
Charlie Brown
Cha Cha now yal
Five hops this time
Touch your knees
how low can you go
can go down low
All the way to floor
Can you bring it the top
like you never never stop
One hop this time
Right foot lets stomp
Left lets stomp
Reverse Reverse
Reverse Reverse
Cha Cha now y'all
 
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