"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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piri

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yep. I know how to dance with a girl. Of course I do. It's an essencial part of flirting with girls at the disco.

But what about dancing alone?

I dunno how do dance alone. I watch other guys and they look ridiculous. They can't dance too. But that doesn't confort me. I want to dance better than them.

Have you never seen a girl at the disco that dances really well? Even if she isn't pretty looking or really hot, she looks like a 10 just because she's dancing really sexy.

Well, I want to dance at the same level when I'm alone and have the same effect on girls.

Is there anything (like a movie or something) that teaches how to dance?
Or maybe you could describe some of the basic steps to perform at the disco.

Please don't tell me to go to a dance school. It's expensive and I don't have time for that.

thanks a lot :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When i'm really into my music in a club I tend to dance with my eyes closed. It might sound stupid but i do it without thinking. Anyway, I find that when i'm really enjoying myself, then people come up to me and dance with me - girls especially.

The point i'm trying to make is don't force something on yourself. If your not having a good time then it'll show.

but yea like El MonoLoco says...dance like nobody is watching - or close your eyes for a bit!
 

piri

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that ain't stupid. I close my eyes while dancing too.

I just wanted some basic steps to dance.

Some really basic steps just to get this going.

thanx for the help
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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try these steps. Works for me:

Two on the left
Two on the right
Slide to the right
Slide to the left
Take it back now yal
One hop this time
Right foot lets stomp
Left foot lets stomp
Charlie Brown
Cha Cha now yal
Five hops this time
Touch your knees
how low can you go
can go down low
All the way to floor
Can you bring it the top
like you never never stop
One hop this time
Right foot lets stomp
Left lets stomp
Reverse Reverse
Reverse Reverse
Cha Cha now y'all
 
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