"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BongDuy

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Hey guys, im looking for some huge tips on how to dance. Now, keep in mind im still in highschool and im going to my school's homecomming, so chances are they will be a lot of booty grinding. I've tried this in the past and its always felt weird for me, what are some tips that i should do when im dancing with a partner to make sure shes enjoying it as much as i do? :flowers:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in the Mood

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Dancing = Move your body!

Don't try anything fancy that you don't think you can handle, but feel free to be creative. Don't be over-creative and wind up making a fool of yourself because it'll be unattractive.

So grinding? Well, if you're having fun, then she's having fun.
If you get hard, she'll probably have a lil extra fun as long as you aren't poking her haha

But yeah don't really worry about it, it's more about how many girls you approach and dance with than how good you are at dancing.
 

Hellomisslady

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Uhhhh have a good time no matter what haha.

Grinding is awesome, it's so easy the girl basically controls everything and if you have the slightest bit of rhythm you'll be fine.

Last weekend I was dancing with a girl at a party and got a raging boner but she kept pulling me closer so i was like ok!

So basically just have a good time and don't worry it's just high school.
 

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Rhythm = dancing to the beat!
Learn to anticipate the beat... stop moving as the beat hits, move/sway/reposition in between beats.
Choose to do this on every beat (involves some effort to keep up) or better still, every 2 or 4.
 

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just move your HIPS to the beat. move your HIPS 2 directions, and 2 directions only at first! left and right left and right left and right.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm in the Mood said:
So grinding? Well, if you're having fun, then she's having fun.
If you get hard, she'll probably have a lil extra fun as long as you aren't poking her haha.
LOL!!!

Hey, my little advice is MOVE WITH THE RHYTHM. No matter what song it is, slow or fast, dancing not in rhythm is goofy and it doesn't feel good.

Another advice: when you go in the party, YOU'RE HAVING FUN! Do not stand next to the wall and stare at the chicks. It's better dancing alone with a smile (a thing that can attract some girl into giving you the "dance with me" signal, than not dancing at all.

Another one: Dring A LITTLE alcohol (you can hide it outside) so you get in the mood. DON'T GET TOO DRUNK!

Another one: flirt with some girls days before the party and talk about dancing with you ("you better get some dancing lessons befor dancing with me, my toes are sensitive" or something like that so when the day comes you'll have a FEW options to dance with.

Another one: get into Youtube and find videos about dancing. Funny ones, serious ones, whatever; and learn the ones you like.

When dancing (not slow) you need to have a matching face like a goofy smile or something. See how the dancers in Youtube look like when they ENJOY dancing.

Now, you need to know one very important thing: DANCING IS THE ULTIMATE KINO. It's up there next to message. The girls you dance with WILL be horny here and there, not just you! Remember that!

Get dressed like a man who respects himself, smell good, groom yourself 100% and make sure nothing gets you out of the good mood.

Have fun and don't forget a condom or 3...
:D
 

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funny story about flirting with girls, i was talking with my good friend George and we were talking to this girl Randy. Then He goes " Hey, would you dance with me?" and she goes " no!"
I look at her and say " well is there anyone who isn't george that you would dance with?" and she looks at me and says " I would dance with you "

haha, i think the reason why is because my friend george is hella perverted. I've had a few girls tell me they'd dance with me, but i plan to try and do some cold approaches as well =)
 
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